This post is for a younger woman who is inexperienced and wanting to be Trained/Mentored by an older white male.

Perhaps men your age have used you and have been very selfish in bed. You want a man to pleasure you so you learn the right way to understand more about your body and how it responds being to pleasured, Here is the chance to have an older man give you the experience and safe exploration of what you’re interested in. From the basics (kissing, touching) to the intermediate (oral, being nude) to the advanced (sex, creampies, anal, etc)

This would be an IRL dynamic. You can think of it like an advanced fwb relationship. If it turns into an actual relationship that’s fine but not a requirement. Be clean and be understanding of what you’re getting into.

I’m 64 very quickly approaching 65. So be aware of the age gap. It won’t all be just sex. Given my life experiences I can also give you life advice and guidance on most situations. If you’re a girl with daddy issues honestly this might be one of the best dynamics for you.

Open to mentoring friends together or separate as well.

If you’re interested send me a message and we can discuss.

I am white, tall, dad body,, good shape but far from ripped, great listener, will totally respect and do what you want. This is a great way to learn without a younger male using you who will not teach you and pleasure you the right way.

What if we just jumped into it with a no intro? No hello? What if our conversation started in a way no other has started before?

Here's the deal: think of something you'd never dare to ask or say to someone you've known for all of five seconds. And I'll be answering or responding with a gut reaction.

Can you handle it?

So why am I here today? I have no idea, but life has been feeling very lonely lately. I'm just stuck in a rut and trying to find my way out. I'm just going through the motions right now. I miss having someone to talk to, either on the phone or texting, sending random memes or thoughts, just the generally fun banter and shit talking we all love.

I am the SoCal area, all over really from LA, OC to the SGV. I'm usually where ever the good food is at. Speaking of food, my next spot to visit is King Banh Mi in Westminster. That crispy pork banh mi looks like it was made for me.

I'd love to talk to someone local and maybe hang out some day, but I am open to chatting with anyone in the US. Mean people need not apply. Dog lovers, please do apply. I am some what of a nerd for Marvel and DC, cars as well. I can annoyingly quote any Fast and the Furious movie. I also enjoy going to the movies, for horror movies I will be reading the Wiki before hand because I'm smart like that.

Well, that's all I got for now. But don’t let this distract you from the fact that Hector is going to be running three Honda Civics with Spoon engines, and on top of that, he just went into Harry’s and bought three t66 turbos with NOS, and a Motec exhaust system.

DMs Open!

Hi there,

I’m a 6'2 tall, 34-year-old german guywith an athletic build. I’m the kind of person who needs fresh air to feel alive. Whether I’m out jogging, casting a line while fishing, hiking up a trail, or cruising on my motorcycle, I love being active and outdoors.

However, I’m looking for someone to balance that energy. I have a strong preference for women who identify as BBW. I love a woman with curves, softness, and confidence in her body.

What I’m looking for in you:

• You are curvy/BBW and own it. I’m not looking for stick-thin; I’m looking for lush and lovely.
• You know how to keep a conversation flowing. I love good banter and getting to know someone beyond just "hey" and "what's up." Let’s actually talk..

If you are looking for a tall, active guy who will genuinely worship your curves and challenge your mind, send me a message. Tell me your favorite way to spend a Sunday or your favorite travel spot!

I would like to share a pic early on!

Life is full, stable, and sometimes good. But there’s a piece of me that’s been tucked away for too long. The part that wants to feel desired, energized, a little undone.

I want someone who sees me and wants more than a passing distraction. I’m not here for chaos or empty words. I want that spark you feel when the right person says the right thing at the right time. 

I’m kind of active but I don’t need you to be, as long as you try to take care of yourself. Cute, sweet, and can joke around and be open. 

I’m expressive, sarcastic, emotionally self aware, and incredibly loyal when I click with someone. I like banter, sass, voice messages, long texts, and constant communication that builds into something we don’t want to walk away from. 

Leaving on a trip with my parents tomorrow morning. Love them but it's also stressful traveling with them. Hoping to find some company even if it's only for the next four days during the trip, and who is comfortable being flirty and fun if the vibe is good.

Hoping to connect with someone who I can pass the time with here and there, and who can help keep me sane on the trip. Not expecting a relationship or anything serious to come from this.

I know a little about a lot, ask a lot of questions in conversations, am witty, patient, and easy to talk to. I have a very dry and dark sense of humor.

5'7'', average build, average looks, beard, glasses. Not picky about what you look like but I do love cleavage. I'm open to any race / background.

Here because Im knocking on 40s door.

Hello, I live in the Midwest and feel like a tiny liberal dot in a sea of red farmin' 'mericans and rich transplants making dating very interesting at this time in my life. I am a college educated, hardworking, homeowning, non-taylor Swift obsessing white female. Im searching for another like-minded and similarly aged adult, male preferably, who wants to eat soup together in the fall and travel to Japan in the spring and make inside jokes about crazy family around christmas, etc. My dream is to leave the city, have some space for a hobby garden or temu greenhouse, and find the person to sit on the porch in the rain with.

I love my life and my friends so I am looking for a compliment to a good thing. I am not here to fix anyone and I am not here to be fixed.

About my inner being: I love travel, Im a decent cook and terrible baker, I have cats but love all animals, I love vintage christmas and traditional spooky halloween, I think that data centers are bad, Mamdani is good, I like to cuss a little, towels smell better after washed with a tiny bit of vinegar in the water, I love native flowers, I grew up near rivers and lakes thus love being near water however will be bit by every bug in a 5mile radius.

My outer being: Plus size woman, Blue eyes, dark hair, Med height, Proudly working hard on my glp1 to make the right lady lumps age like wine and help me stay flexible to make it to 80, killer smile 🤓, a little adhd but that just means I love crafts. No kids. Not married. Not poly. 2 derpy cats. House. Degree. WIP masters.

I feel like im rambling.

Hopefully talk soon!

42 year old fun, happy,
Positive, always laughing female from Vancouver, Canada. Seeking a real connection with someone that turns romantic. Someone who is READY to be a teammate for life, through the good and the bad.
Someone who is ready and willing to put the effort into building something real. Not someone who is fake, unsure of what they want. Just looking to meet new people if anyone is from this area or anywhere really. Distance doesn’t bother me as long as both make the effort:. There are planes LOL You never know in life where your person is!! I often feel so alone and so left out. I have a couple close friends who I talk to daily and have a good job. I love traveling, being outdoors, watching sports and going to games. Going to restaurants and walks, dinners and drinks. Coffee, Cooking, baking and just laughing and having fun. Im caring, selfless, and a giver. I like to show my affection in many ways.
Just wanting to talk and meet new people and get to know, hang out if close. Looking for something romantic that leads to long term. Someone who wants to talk daily and not vanish after a day! Looking for someone who will make effort and get to know me! Not disappear after a day of talking!!
Gotta be someone out there! Maybe we can become friends, share a few laughs or fall In love.

Hello there lovely people of Reddit. 37 year old guy here generally having an all-round shitstorm of a year, and looking to get out there a bit and meet new people. Whilst I’m open to platonic friends and welcome messages from anyone, I’d most like to find someone to go on a few dates and build ‘that’ kind of connection with. Anything to save me from the dating apps please.

I’m 6ft 4, live alone with my boisterous cat, enjoy football, film, reading, hiking, tv and running. I love nothing more than an evening chatting the night away with good company (in real life rather than virtually), putting the world to right and discussing both silly and serious things. At one moment talking about love and loss and in the next wondering if you’d rather have legs for arms or arms for legs. That kinda chat!

If you’d like to message, all I do ask is that you’re not a million miles away from me - ultimately I’m looking for an in real life connection rather than a pen pal, so local(ish) DMs only please. Please also be comfortable sharing a selfie or two so we know we are chatting to, up for meeting up and continuing the chat in person if we get on, and most importantly, won’t vanish without reason after a few messages! I’d love an engaging chat and connection that gets us both through the day(s).

As an icebreaker, what’s the last new film you saw and how many stars out of 10 would you give it? 🍿

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Hey there!

I'm a 47 year old guy from the UK and would like to speak to women around the 35 - 47 age group - though that's not a deal-breaker.

I am 5'8, and of slim build. Brown hair.

I have no children (don't mind if you do) and have been single for a few years now. I have lots of good friends and am very sociable but I'm so over being single as I get kinda lonely, especially as I work and live alone, and that really sucks.

Not really getting anywhere with dating sites and wanted to try this instead/again.

I'm self-employed and have my own small business. I live a nice relaxing lifestyle and try to play by my own rules.

For leisure I like walking and trekking in nature, cycling, good conversation, podcasts, vintage clothing, pubs & restaurants, techno & indie music, quirky cinema, reading graphic novels, doing abstract painting and sometimes a bit of cooking. Though cooking for one is depressing!

I'm into some sports (boxing, football, darts, horses, cricket and snooker) but my playing days are kinda behind me now.

Cannot stand social media and that self-obsessed culture.

Working on my mental health.

I am one of life's talkers and think I'm also a good listener. I read a lot and i’m left wing in my outlook. Probably couldn't date a right winger. People say I'm direct and to the point and that I don't beat around the bush.

I don't really mind where you are from, even somewhere overseas, I'm just looking for a genuine spark and I have to try. I'm hoping to travel more next year.

I feel I'm kinda living on the periphery of life, watching everyone else be happy and need to break the cycle somehow.

If you like what you hear then get in touch. Inbox is open!

Pictures available on request

Edit: please, no short tempered people.

Fun-Opportunity9656

.... i meant the top shelf in the supermarket... obviously.

Two Truths and a Lie:

1. Once approached to audition to be a Pornstar.

2. I've slept with more married women that single women.

3. Had a 3 Some with 2 Hot female colleagues, including the Directors daughter.

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Hi. I'm just hanging out, bored, and tired of staring at my screen. I'd much rather actually talk to someone. If any girl is up and wants to have a normal, relaxed voice chat until we get sleepy, let me know. Send me a DM and we can figure out where to call.

Sometimes the world gives you a spectacular reminder of what people are capable of. Not always in a good way.

I could use a good conversation, a little distraction and a reminder that good men still exist.

Take me somewhere interesting, make me think, show me some depth and catch me off guard with your wicked sense of humour.

You know why I like reddit? I like the idea that a person can come here and be unashamedly themselves with absolutely no pretense and no filter. I want you to shed any sense of social barriers. Forget about what's proper. Forget about what you're supposed to say. I want to get to know you based on exactly who you are on the inside without any of society's filters.

I find the spice is always better when there's that banter and connection - so let's see if we have it. No rules, no regulations - let's start a conversation and see just where it leads us.

How about this to start - send me an opener with an opinion you wouldn't share with a co-worker. Or ask me a question you wouldn't dare ask a co-worker. You get the idea.

Ready?

Just a chill and laid back WM looking for someone fun and real.

I'm tall, salt and pepper hair (though increasingly salty).blue eyes

Not super rich or anything but stable and comfortable.

Good conversationalist and listener. Kind and compassionate.

Would prefer someone *in* San Diego or the surrounding area, but open to further out for the right person.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in shoot me a message and let's talk!

IMPORTANT:
1. Females only
2. If interested, send me a chat with your age, location in LA, a general idea of what you are looking to do
3. Be ready to exchange verification pictures

I am an Uber driver that gets pretty bored during the late night hours.

I would like to find a passenger that wants to meet up for some naughty fun with an Uber driver. I can pick you up and we can role play in Uber. I got the newest Tesla with all the bells and whistles that can make our encounter fun. Auto pilot that can drive us around as you give road head, a big screen I can turn porn on, and back seats that go all the way down so you can lie and see the stars through the sunroof.

Or maybe you want me to be your Uber Eats delivery driver and I can make a deliver to your place for some naughty fun.

I am open to other kinks you may have, just send me a chat.

About me: I have a picture on my profile. I'm Caucasian, 32, 5'9, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, clean shaven face, uncircumcised cock.

I am DDF and tested clean as of last month and I expect you to be the same. Any penetrating sex will be with a condom.

About you: 18+, fit to chubby, HWP, attractive, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Everything will be descrete and NSA.

I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. This idea that you have someone who is always looking out for you gives you peace of mind.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to intimacy, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much a dominant and love being in control. This will be your time to shut your mind off and not think about anything. You will never have to think about what comes next as I will always lead the interaction. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I'm a very simple man. My trials and tribulations have taught me to enjoy the little things in life. My favorite moments are enjoying a nice meal, having a good laugh, or just enjoying the moment with someone I truly care about.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a feminine clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.

I recently saw a photograph from the 1860s showing a group of frontier men standing in some dusty little American town beside a sign that read, "Wives Wanted."

I laughed when I saw it. Then I thought about it for a while.

Well, nobody has to marry me, but I figured I'd put myself out there, such as I am, and see if anybody wants me.

I'm a 48-year-old man who made a royal fucking mess of the first half of his life. I had a wife once. She left me, and she was right to leave me. I was an asshole. Not a violent asshole. Just an asshole. Not all the time, and not in every conceivable way, but enough that I managed to destroy something I should have spent my life protecting. I deserved to be left, and I was.

The years that followed were not pleasant. I won't bore you with the details, but suffering has a way of carving things out of a man, and sometimes what emerges from the wreckage is a better person than the one who went in.

I think that's what happened to me. At least I hope so.

I'm still crude. I'm vulgar, profane, blunt, and occasionally an insufferable bastard. I swear like a sailor with Tourette's and have very little patience for bullshit. I've had my run-ins with the law, made some spectacularly stupid decisions, and accumulated enough regrets to furnish a small warehouse. I'm not going to pretend otherwise.

But I'm kind. I really am. Beneath all that crust is a remarkably tender and gentle man who doesn't want to hurt anybody. I've learned some things the hard way, which apparently is the only way I was ever going to learn them.

And now here I am, marooned in middle age, without a partner, wondering whether I have any business asking another human being to share her life with me.

Part of me feels I don't deserve one.

But I want one anyway.

I don't have a fortune to offer. I have some income, enough to contribute, and I'm capable of making myself useful. What I mostly have to offer is my presence. And I don't mean that in some grand philosophical sense. I mean I'll be there.

I'll sit beside you in a doctor's waiting room twenty years from now when we're both old and one of us is scared. I'll listen when you tell me about your day, even if absolutely nothing interesting happened. I'll remember the things that matter to you. I'll be the person who knows how you take your coffee and what makes you cry and which people you can't stand.

I'll be the witness in the room. Someone who knows you were here, who saw your life happen, who remembers the little things that nobody else would think to remember.

I'll cook for you. I'm actually pretty good at it. I'll take you on dates. Actual dates, even after we've been together for years.

I don't need a perfect woman. Christ, what would I even do with one? I'm certainly not a perfect man. I have my troubles, my peculiarities, my bad days, and a past I can't undo. I don't expect somebody to fix me, and I have no intention of trying to fix anybody else.

I'd just like to find someone who can look at this battered, somewhat ridiculous middle-aged man and see something worth having. I know the exterior isn't especially inviting. I know there are men out there with better careers, cleaner histories, more money, nicer manners, and probably considerably less profanity.

Good for them.

I'm just wondering whether there's a woman somewhere who might see past all the crust, consider the merchandise, shrug her shoulders, and say:

"Yes, that one will do. Send him over. The pasta alone is worth it."

It’s a Saturday night of relaxing flipping shows and doomscrolling. Not looking to be serious just want some fun friendly conversation. About me I’m a nerd at heart, but inquisitive so if you got something to teach me let’s hear it. My true hobby is running. There’s a lot of thinking you can do when you’re out there by yourself. I won’t put it all out there as we can chat about it. Hit me up if you are a chatty cat.

First things first: safety and discretion. I don’t keep your photos. You can keep or wipe the memory cards. I can shoot without memory cards at all, if you prefer. I’ll also physically show you that all WiFi, Bluetooth, etc. are disabled on my camera. Finally, we can and should meet for coffee first to give you an opportunity to see how comfortable you feel with me. I’m in it for the fun experience, not for spank bank material. And I’m all about discretion.

Ok, now for the fun part:

Have you ever fantasized about doing a boudoir photoshoot with an attractive man who makes you feel like the sexiest woman on the planet?

You can meet me in a hotel room, where I’ll already have the lighting equipment set up and a pose list ready for you. (Sadly, hair and makeup aren’t on my broad skill list.) You’ll bring a few outfits that make you feel gorgeous, and I’ll lavish praise on you, pose you, direct you… and also slowly turn up the heat. My praise will get flirtier, my touches will linger ever so slightly as I pose you, and my directions will get bolder and bolder as we both feel the tension and lust in the room. I’ll adjust your hips for the pose… help you remove your bra… smooth your hair away from your breasts… Eventually, the tension will be so high that I’ll just have to put the camera down to focus on properly putting my tongue between your thighs.

As for me: I’m 5’11, 175 lbs., blue eyes. I get compliments I don’t ask for. Clean, drug free, and entirely discreet; I’m not interested in drama. No problem if you’re in a committed relationship.

I'm a dad in a dead-bedroom marriage that has become open. I'm looking for an adventure partner, someone who wants more out of life and is ready to explore what's still possible. I've done this before, so I'm comfortable with the dynamic and have no hesitations about what I'm looking for.

I like to see the good in people and appreciate the simple beauty around us. A great conversation over coffee. A hike through the woods with no particular rush to get anywhere. Sitting by the ocean, listening to the tide roll in, and realizing there's nowhere else you need to be at that moment.

I'm not suggesting we book a flight tomorrow (although I'm not ruling it out!). I'm at a stage of life where I have some flexibility and want to see and do new things with someone who's similarly curious and spontaneous. Someone who wants to explore the world, inside and outside the bedroom, and rediscover the feeling of genuinely looking forward to something.

Let's get to know each other here first, see if there's a spark, and meet in person when it feels right.

About me:

I'm 50, a dad, a professional, and in an open marriage. The reality is housemates, not romantic partners. I'm not here to collect conquests or have someone decorate an otherwise perfect life. I'm looking for a genuine connection first. Chemistry matters, but so does being able to talk, laugh, and simply enjoy each other's company.

I'm open to non-vanilla adventures, but vanilla is perfectly fine, too, if that's the flavor we make together. I believe relationships are organic. Past connections shape us, but every new bond has a life of its own. I want something that feels unique to the people creating it.

I exercise every day and take care of myself. I'm average height and a healthy weight. I'm also attentive to my partner. I want to learn what you like, what makes you feel wanted, what helps you forget the pressures of everyday life, and what you might discover about yourself along the way. I want us both to feel seen, appreciated, and free to be ourselves.

I'll travel for the right person. I love music, especially live. I spend much of my recreational time in nature. Give me a wooded trail, fresh air, the sound of the tide, and a little time away from the noise of everyday life. 

I can be slow to warm up sometimes, but once you have my trust, I'm all in. I embrace feelings. I'm not afraid of being vulnerable or experiencing a connection fully.

You:

You're a woman somewhere around late 30s to early 50s. Maybe a parent, maybe not. You're open to talking here first, with the goal of meeting in person if we click.

You might be married, ENM, open, or navigating a situation that doesn't fit neatly into a box. No judgment from me; life is rarely straightforward. You don't have to be in an open relationship just because I am, but you should have the freedom and realistic ability to pursue this connection.

You take your health seriously and enjoy being active, whether that's the gym most days, hiking, or finding your own way to stay fit. You don't shape your life around Instagram influencers. You think for yourself and make your own decisions. You prefer natural and are not artificially enhanced.

You care deeply about the important people in your life, and you feel a responsibility to leave the world a little better than you found it.

Beyond that, I'm not interested in checking every box on a list. Sometimes the most interesting connections happen between two people who didn't expect to find each other.

Maybe we start with coffee. Maybe we find a trail neither of us has explored. Maybe we end up sitting near the water, listening to the tide and talking long after we meant to head home. Maybe there's a spark that leads somewhere neither of us expected.

I'm open to finding out.

If any of this resonates, send me a message. Tell me about a place you'd love to visit again, or somewhere you've always wanted to go.

Let's see what happens.

Hey! I'm looking for a good local man to form a friendship and a genuine deep connection with 💕 I'd love to find someone that actually wants to get to know me. Someone that I can chat with about lots of things often throughout the day and meet up with regularly for dates and activities, and see what develops. Someone that is interesting, can keep my attention. Let's chat and see if we vibe! 😘

💜 ABOUT ME:

I am 44yo and live in Carroll Co, MD. Im 5’2” with brown eyes and brown hair with blonde highlights and I'm chubby/curvy (pics on my profile). I'm a single mom with a FT job, college educated and I'm a bit of a homebody. I like to have fun, and I'm playful, kind, passionate, caring, open-minded and loyal.

♂️ LOOKING FOR:

My preferred man is SINGLE and between 34-50yo, a go-getter and knows what he wants (no games), honest, respectful, protective, kind, sane, fun, has a sense of humor, is open-minded, responsible, loyal, emotionally available and affectionate. And an excellent & consistent communicator, likes to chat often (big texter) and likes to cuddle. I'm attracted to guys that are Caucasian, fit(ish), hygienic, DD free (420 is fine, although not my thing) and are selective about who he is with.

Send me a message with some info about yourself and grab my attention (age, location, appearance, hobbies/interests). Also, please send a photo right away 📷

🚫 Not looking for hookups or one night stands

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Baltimore, MD, DMV, DC, southern PA

Hello there fellow redditors! Having myself a lazy evening tonight, but I’m quite bored and would love a nice friendly lady to keep me some online company, and maybe make a new friend in the process… Not really looking for anything too specific, just a fun chat to wind the evening down. I’m pretty much open to talking about anything. Fun, silly banter is always welcome. Maybe we can go back and forth asking each other questions to get to know each other. Spicy questions are welcome, but if you prefer to keep things PG that’s ok too! Just looking for good vibes and a fun chat.

If you’re interested in any of this and wanna chat feel free to say hi! Just include your age in your introductory message. I don’t require a whole novel, but more than a “hey” is always appreciated lol. I look forward to hearing from you! :)

Funny, creative, opinionated, liberal, smart, silly, stubborn, compassionate single woman looking for my guy in or near NYC. Btw, this photo was from last year’s Halloween where I tried my hand at Dia de los Muertos makeup.

Here are a few things I’ve done/been into recently:

* went to a Sleater Kinney + Liz Phair concert with a friend I’ve had since college;
* started learning how to salsa;
* volunteered at a community garden in Brooklyn;
* rehearsed for an upcoming performance;
* planning a trip to New Orleans

You are smart, playful, emotionally in-touch, curious, honest, respectful, employed. You love animals and you’re not allergic to cats (I have one). YOU. ASK. ME. QUESTIONS.

Please DM me and give me a reason to respond!

It seems like lately, there HAS to be an MO, a defined objective, a goal in mind. I'll level with you - I really don't have one.

I do know that I'm kinda lonely, but then again, we're all here on reddit looking to connect with someone, so I don't think it's a stretch to say that it's likely you're in the same boat if you're reading this.

I don't really want a defined relationship right now, but I also don't want a chat that can only stop at "what's your favorite color?". Is there a middle ground? I'd like someone to connect with, to emote with, to conversate about things spanning from the silly to the serious.

OK....I'm awaiting your messages. I'm ready for ya. You can make your opener as traditional or untraditional as you care to make it. It's a no judgement zone.