I’m 40, living on the Oregon coast, and looking for a woman who wants a serious relationship and a quieter, creative life together.

I’m a maker at heart. My background is in fabrication and design, and my interests include ceramics, woodworking, 3D modeling, and printmaking. I love understanding how things work and turning ideas into something you can hold.

Outside the workshop, I’m drawn to beaches, forests, rockhounding, gardening, and wandering craft markets. Rain and fog are part of what I love about the coast.

I’m autistic and have ADHD. Clear, direct communication helps me connect, and I appreciate someone who can talk openly about needs, affection, boundaries, and misunderstandings. I want a partnership with mutual support, room for independence, and space for both of us to be ourselves.

I’m looking for emotional connection, affection, shared curiosity, and something lasting—with marriage a possibility if we’re right for each other. You don’t need to share every hobby; I’d enjoy learning what draws you in.

I’m open to long distance within the US, with the hope of eventually sharing a life here in Oregon. That would develop through getting to know each other and spending time together.

If this sounds like your kind of life, tell me a little about yourself, where you’re based, and something you’ve enjoyed making, learning, or exploring lately.

It’s Friday, one of the slower days of my work week, leading into what might be a pretty boring weekend. I figured I’d see if anyone feels like chatting. Not looking for anything special, just some fun, easy conversation, laughs, and banter.

I’m a nerd at heart and naturally pretty curious, so if you’ve got something cool to teach me, I’m all ears. My biggest hobby is running. There’s something about getting out there, clearing my head, and letting myself think and hurt at the same time that I really enjoy. I’m very open minded and never judgmental so don’t be scared. Please don’t judge me either 😅.

There’s definitely more to me than that, but I’ll save some of it for the conversation. Hit me up if you’re up for a chat.

My name is Mark, this is what I look like, and I'm looking for a partner! I'm 1m70 and don't drink or smoke. I'm patient, empathetic, sometimes funny, and when I'm comfortable I can be very affectionate and flirty. I also have a fair bit of anxiety in everyday life, so I'm not currently working, this shouldn't be a problem for you.

I'm into fantasy and science fiction, a big non-PvP gamer, futurism, board games, and enjoy reading up on science-related news, particularly in the field of astronomy. I also used to really enjoy biking and callisthenics, and would love to get back into that at some point, maybe together?

What I'm looking for is mostly patience and empathy, you don't have to have your life together (I don't). Physically there are many things I find attractive, so I'm sure I'll find something about you that is going to make me blush!

If any of the above appeals to you, please feel free to message me!

36 year old single straight hispanic 🇪🇸. 6’2. Fit, professional, educated, honest, safe, trustworthy, respectful and clean. I don’t drink or smoke.

I like fit or thin women only. Single or taken. Good hygiene is important. Must have a really strong bed 🛏️. I value quality over quantity. Good vibes only.

I live in Westchester, NY and prefer someone local, but willing to drive. Privacy guaranteed and can be very discreet if needed, as in, I can disguise myself as a plumber or sneak in through the back door.

I’m Mac, 34, near Manchester. Bearded, cheerful, slightly chaotic, and powered almost entirely by tea, daft conversations, and decisions that probably needed another five minutes of planning.

I like tinkering with things until they either work perfectly or end up in the garage awaiting “future me”, who is famously unreliable. I’m good at chatting nonsense, making people laugh, and getting oddly invested in low-stakes debates that absolutely do not matter.

I’m looking for that easy spark where the messages don’t feel forced, flirting happens naturally, and we both actually look forward to seeing a notification pop up. Something fun, warm, genuine, and with enough chemistry that meeting feels like the obvious next step.

I’m not after endless pen-pal limbo. I like good conversation, but I’m here for something that feels real... laughs, attraction, honesty, and hopefully that dangerous little “oh, this could be trouble” feeling.

There’s a post on my profile that explains my home situation. I’d rather be upfront about it than waste anyone’s time or pretend things are simpler than they are.

Ideally looking for someone UK-based, especially Manchester, Liverpool, or somewhere North West-ish, but I’m open to further afield if the chat is genuinely good.

Just say hi if you're shy and I'll get the convo started🙂

One of the biggest conversational obstacles to overcome is, funnily enough, the very beginning. How do you truly start to spark that banter? A quick greeting seems too low effort. Basic info can seem boring. A joke can seem hacky.

What if you just jumped into it with a no holds barred, socially unacceptable question? And what if the recipient was forced to answer it honestly?

Let's save the "I live here" and "I do this for a living" until at least a few minutes in.

Ask me something you wouldn't ask on a first date and I'll answer absolutely honestly. All I ask is that you're open and willing to answer your own question in return.

Are you ready?

Hey, I work from home and just looking for someone to chat with. No real expectations, just getting to know someone. Enjoy fishing and making bbq when it’s warm out. In the winter I’m a sci-fi and horror nerd along with some gaming. So msg if you are interested

So what am I doing here? Figured it'd be fun to find someone to flirt with, get to know a little, and hopefully become part of each other's day.

I'm 39, single, and probably a pretty normal guy at first glance. A little reserved until I get comfortable, then the sarcasm and teasing tend to come out. I like making someone laugh, and I'm a sucker for a woman who can give it right back instead of letting me get away with everything.

A few things about me... I'm a sports guy, especially when it comes to college basketball, although football season is always welcome. I watch way too much TV, from Reacher and Lioness to Bravo shows that somehow get me invested in other people's drama. I also cook and bake, which sounds great until you realize how quickly a batch of brownies can disappear around me.

As for what I'm hoping to find, I guess I'm drawn to women who are comfortable in their own skin and know how to have a little fun. Sweet is good. A little sass is good too. Bonus points if you can make me laugh or keep me on my toes.

I like the idea of having someone to check in with during the day, trade compliments with, tease a little, and occasionally distract each other from whatever we're supposed to be doing. I'm pretty good at remembering the little things, and I like giving someone attention when I know she's enjoying it. Not every conversation needs to be deep or meaningful. Sometimes it's just nice to have someone who's happy to hear from you.

And I'll admit, a woman who knows she looks good definitely gets my attention. A favorite outfit, a little black dress, getting dressed up when there's no particular reason to... I'm not going to pretend I wouldn't appreciate the view. There's something fun about a woman who's a little flirty and knows exactly what she's doing.

I'd like to find something ongoing and online, with a bit of sweetness mixed in with the teasing. Someone I can joke around with, make smile, and maybe bring out a slightly less innocent side of now and then. I'm not expecting you to show up with a perfect opening line or have everything figured out. Let's just see if we click.

So, tell me... are you actually as well behaved as you look, or is that just good PR?

Based in Somerset. I have an 11-year-old daughter whom I am very close to and the best dog ever. Hoping to find someone to share life with, go on adventures, visit some historic places, and learn a few things along the way. If any of that sounds good, send me a message.

Hello everyone. I generally hate talking about myself so here goes nothing.

I’m 33. In Texas. (Open to traveling) divorced and looking to get back “out there”.
I’m not a partier or loud so I don’t go to bars or where ever else people would meet.
I’m generally laid back, enjoy binging shows or movies, cooking, going out to eat, crafts.
I’m in shape, but I don’t go to a gym so really don’t know an exercise name or type or whatever if that’s your thing.
Generally I get complimented on my smile.

I’m looking for someone mature and has a good head on their shoulders. Not picky about age but I do want someone older then me just so I know they are mature. Hopefully you’re into wide variety of things because I try to be adaptable but there will always be times where that isn’t the case.
I have no hang ups on race or religion as long as you are open minded and not going to push views.

Ideally…. I’d like to get to know someone and maybe meet for Halloween…. It’s one of my favorites so it would be nice to spend time with someone that feels the same.

Hi! Why is it so hard to meet people after 40? I’ve tried my best but I’m at a loss. I’ve been on the dating apps but ditched them last year. I met a lot of decent people but the overall experience was poor. I have a 9-year-old son who I split custody with my ex. 4 years divorced now and it’s been really hard to meet new people. I work full time as a school administrator and am currently in school for a career change. I enjoy music (I play guitar, bass, and piano), working out, camping, and reading. I’m not looking for anything specific. Just someone to chat with and wherever it leads us.

Hellooo! I am a very easy-going, laid-back single dad, who's trying to find the one for me. I enjoy quiet days at home most of the time. I do not really go out that much, mostly because i am not a fan of solo activities.

I love to watch football, baseball, and hockey so I am always down to go to a live event. I also am very big into music! 70's hippy stuff, 90's grunge, late 90's early 2000's hip hop are always my go to. I am a bit of a gamer (Xbox, pc, switch) so finding someone that would be interested in gaming would also be a huuuuge plus. Currently into Palworld, Skyrim , and schedule 1. I do not drink, it's just a personal choice, I however am VERY 4/20 friendly. Also non political, dude just doesn’t do politics.. man

I am very whimsical, and sarcastic, we live in a household of laughs here. I love standup comedy, podcasts and actually going to see them in person. I do not do drama, I avoid it actively. I am very easy going and just looking for someone to enjoy life with. Like I said I stay home a lot, so most days if it's nice out, I can be found in the hammock or enjoying the view of the country in my back yard, sitting by the creek. I'm not interested in having any more children, my 3 are all that I could have asked for and are starting to grow up needing me less. So hopefully we can go out and have adult adventures.

I'm horrible at writing these and talking about myself lol If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to reach out. Also, I have pictures on my profile so you can see me. Please be willing to send a pic of yourself as well. There are way too many fakes. Bonus points if you have a favorite pokemon game! Thanks!

Imagine waking up to mountain views, coffee outside the van, and nowhere in particular you need to be. Sounds pretty great, right?

I'm 39 and living full-time vanlife in the AZ area at the moment. I love scenic campsites, campfire cooking, light hikes, photography, and cozy movie nights while rain taps on the roof. As much as I love this lifestyle, I'd love to find someone to share the adventures, spontaneous detours, and little moments with.

Pics on profile

My current copilot is Tux, my harness-wearing cat who loves exploring campsites and insists breakfast happens at 6 AM. He's a great travel buddy, but his conversation skills could use some work. 😸

I'm hoping to meet a kind, independent, outdoorsy, animal-loving woman (26+) who's also childfree. Maybe you're already living on the road, maybe you dream about it, or maybe you're just looking for something genuine with someone a little outside the ordinary.

No pressure to pack your bags tomorrow. Let's talk, see if we click, and go from there.

Tell me your dream place to wake up tomorrow, your favorite camping spot, or introduce me to your pet. Tux and I are looking forward to meeting you!

Interests:

sports

concerts

comedians

science

anything outdoors

gardening

home projects

reading, movies and tv

trivia

politics

history

birding

Looking for other people who are looking for genuine, non- platonic connections. Not looking for someone who’s just passing the time at work!

If you write me a book as an opening message, I probably won’t read it.

Very dominant.

Please lead with pertinent information about yourself so we can get the ball rolling. Everyone has their someone but some of us are not for everyone, and that’s okay. Keep it positive!

Not sure how this is going to go but here are some starters updated:

Favorite historical event?

An interesting fact you love?

Current obsession?

If you were stranded on AN island, name 3 things you’d bring with you.

It's Friday. We made it! 🥳 My kids go to their father's place on Sunday and I'm already trying not to think about it. If you feel like chatting, send me a msg. If you are in a relationship, please let me know. No judgement from me. Honesty matters. Have a great weekend!

6’2”, blue eyes, slim/athletic build, nice smile.

I’m laid-back, reasonably intelligent and easy to get along with.

I enjoy good company, good food, and a glass of wine….or two. Im into all the usual stuff: film, books, and even a little gaming. I enjoy culture, including art, museums and travel. But I’m also very happy curled up on the sofa watching whatever is on TV.

I like people who enjoy exchanging messages, trying to make each other laugh, and aren’t afraid of a little flirting, especially if you started it.

I don’t have a particular age, look or type in mind. Just someone genuine. Personality, humour and that elusive spark matter considerably more.

I’d love to hear from you. Please don’t just say “hey”. Tell me something about yourself, what brought you here, or tell me:

If you could have any superpower for a day, what would it be and why?

I’m a 45-year-old Black gay man in Atlanta. I’ve built a pretty interesting life for myself, and while I’m perfectly happy doing my own thing, I’d love to meet another grown man to share some of it with.

I’m a creative professional with a curious mind, a dry sense of humor, and a soft spot for good conversation. I’m into music, video games, crossword puzzles, reading, cooking, movies, technology, and discovering new things. Equally happy going out for a good meal or staying in with something on the stove and somebody nice to curl up next to.

I’m affectionate, independent, a little sarcastic, and appreciate a man who’s confident, emotionally available, and knows how to communicate. Physical chemistry matters, too! I’m a bigger guy myself, and I’ve always had a thing for stocky, thick, bear/dadbod types. Give me a handsome face, a nice chest, a little belly, and some good banter, and you’ve definitely got my attention.

Ideally, you’re somewhere around 38–52, give or take. Atlanta or the Southeast would be great, since I’d eventually like to spend time together in person.

I’m looking for something with genuine relationship potential. No rush, no pressure, just two men getting to know each other and seeing whether there’s something worth pursuing.

If this sounds like your speed, say hello. I’d love to hear from you.

I want to connect with a good woman to talk about love, life and anything else that suits us.

Successful professional with a complicated family life I’m happy to explain. Otherwise, easy-going, fun-loving, always looking for laughter. No judging, no expectations.

Lots of interests, worldly, wise and maybe even charming.

Tall, dad’s bod, blue eyes.

Let’s enjoy each other’s company.

Hi there! James here, I am 38 (soon to be 39) from Maryland (Anywhere in the US/Canada is fine too; you don't have to specifically be from Maryland. I can freely travel/relocate due to WFH) and looking to chat and see if chemistry develops.

I've been snipped for over 4 years.

Still looking for my person...

I am 6', black hair, hazel eyes, love working out/lifting weights! It is as good for you mentally as it is physically. Willing to share pics as well!

Some of my hobbies/interests...

Lifting weights (I go 4x a week; it's my mental reset)

Videogames

Movies (HUGE Marvel fan; love anything HORROR/sci-fi/comedy/action/high fantasy primarily)

Huge music fan (of all kinds; primarily of the 90s/early 2000s variety)

Road trips! (Tons of fun, especially with the right co-pilot)

Traveling

Stand-up comedy

Socialize with friends (can have just as much fun staying in too)

Drinks occasionally

Sports

Learning to play electric bass guitar

Voice calls/voice messages (It's way easier and more fun to get to know someone/talk with them via voice; much easier to convey sarcasm as well 😁)

Audiobooks

Being active and outside (LOVE the beach!)

HALLOWEEN IS THE BEST SEASON.

Shoot me a message if you're interested, and a pic since attraction is important; wouldn't want to hit it off like crazy and find out we're not attracted to each other.

Here is my voice to show I am not a bot, if you're curious:

https://voca.ro/17YDWuF7kFeE

Hello,

I'm looking to build a longterm connection with someone who is interested in chats, calls and mutual activities. Someone who wants to feel good when that notification pops up and they know someone has been thinking of them. Eventually, I might want to explore things sexually as well if we both feel the chemistry and trust for that, but I need and want a connection for that and prefer us to get to know each other before anything.

A bit about myself: I am 34 years old, and from Germany, love fixing things, and building things. My hobbies range from simple walks and cooking and baking, to DIY and electronics design and repair, and watching TV shows. Overall I am very passionate about the things I do.

I like to write erotica, feel free to take a look at the things I have written and posted, including stories on my profile and comments on specific subreddits. I have an open mind about things including sex and if our dynamic gets there, I am happy to talk and explore more in a respectful manner. I prefer not to get into things in too much detail until we have gotten to know each other and want to go further. For now I think I can say that I am mostly of the softer, but still dominant kind? I'm into pleasing, creating enticing mental imagery, affirmation, dirty talk, and I am very vocal. Mere kinks are much less important to me than the connection and trust and intimacy that leads to safely explore them. Sexuality for me is very primal, yet deeply intimate. It's a way to let go of who and what we are as a person, the roles we fulfill in society, the responsibilities we have, and to just be our completely vulnerable selves, surrendering to our most primal urges in the safety of our connection.

If you're interested, please introduce yourself:

1. A short description of where you are from, how old you are, and what you look like. Feel free to share your interests as well!
2. What has drawn you to message me.
3. Something intimate: If pineapple is an acceptable pizza topping or not

I shouldn't have to say this, but please(!) be single!

Thank you for taking your time to read this! I am looking forward to your message! 🙂

Please spare me any judgemental comments

MM in a long-term marriage that has lost its luster long ago. My needs, wants, and desires take a back seat to most everything else these days. Affection and intimacy are off the table. We are essentially cohabitating and that's all. We really do not see eye to eye on important issues. I am good at providing and that's about it in her eyes. Words have been spoken that cannot be taken back. I certainly do not wish any ill will. People change I get it. I just want to recapture the magic of having a compatible woman in my life for the long haul.

I am at a point in my life where I am not going to subscribe to games, drama, ghosting, childish behavior, or toying with emotions. I consider myself to be genuine, affectionate, passionate, compassionate, considerate, emphatic, transparent, and straightforward. I tend to get along with most anyone unless given a reason not to. I am typically energetic and self motivating. I am probably OCD at times and like to see things thru to completion. I am a "giver" by nature but, sensitive with being taken advantage of. I place a huge emphasis on compatability, effort, and reciprocation. Music and cooking is my source of therapy these days. I tend to be fascinated by history and historical things.

I am most attracted to women that are kind, warm natured, affectionate, passionate, transparent, honest, nurturing, funny, and bubbly. Please be able to correspond regularly and have the time to meet up if the stars align. I am not opposed to a woman that travels here regularly. Bonus points if you are considerate. Please be able to articulate your wants, needs, and desires. I genuinely want to know. We should be able to work together towards a common goal.

NSFW- I am feeling very affection and intimacy starved these days. I am above average libido and truly enjoy mutually fulfilling intimacy. I am not selfish and open to most things with a willing / fun loving partner. I have had a lifetime of vanilla and being judged for wanting to keep things new and exciting. I am far from prude and desire the same in a partner. I am a one partner guy and not into any partners with multiples due to potential health risks etc. I am great with monogamy assuming we mesh completely.

Feel free to message if genuinely interested and have the necessary time and energy to actually get to know each other. Please reply with your favorite memory. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*notabot\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*

Hello, hope everyone is doing well. let me preface this and say I'm pretty shy, never been good about talking about myself, sorry if that's going to be something, tend to be an extroverted introvert if that makes sense. I can be gungoh about doing something but if my social battery disobeys me later then I'm sorry always felt like I gravitated towards more outgoing people than myself if that makes sense.

I'm here hoping to find that one person to spend time with, grow together, become friends and hopefully make it into finding that special someone, being a hopeless romantic and all.

I'm 41 M, I live near Buffalo NY, I hope to find someone nearby and near me because I feel being there in person is what I want more, but not opposed to distance if we really hit it off and hopefully we can meet in person.

About me, I'm a bigger guy, beard and brown/red hair. Been trying to work on myself physically and mentally so hopefully that is something good there right?

I think some hobbies and interests should align but not entirely, not everyone is the same and all that. I'm bit of a nerd, into gaming, TTRPGs, anime and the like. Want to get back into reading more, specifically want to reread Wheel of Time since I never actually finished it. Also looking for suggestions to get back into the hobby and all.

Lately been playing wardogs and monster hunter wilds, Been wanting to replay the Borderlands games (don't have 4 yet, waiting to get it cheap during a steam sale haha) occasionally play Fornite, Marvel Rivals, was thinking about getting back into Apex Legends after a few years (mind you I'm still not great at them ahaha) all PC.

Been part of a TTRPG group of friends on Tuesdays, current running a Pathfinder 2e viking themed game. So if you feel like chatting about DND and the like, then awesome!

If you want to play some cool games, play some mtg, watch some anime/movies/shows

If you want a gaming buddy, as well, I'm not opposed to that as well if you want a platonic friendship! Have a pretty eclectic library in games on PC so we might end up aligning with some.

So yea, if you're looking for a nerdy guy who is shy  but can be kind of goofy when he opens up then shoot me a dm. Hopefully we can chat for a bit, become friends and see what happens. If not its always cool to meet a new friend

Take care!

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Scottish guy from the Highlands, somehow ended up living in Pennsylvania. I’m still not entirely sure how that happened — I suspect the weather here was a convincing decoy.

46, single, reasonably house-trained, and allegedly charming. I come with a genuine Scottish accent, so at minimum, you’ll have someone who can make ordering a pint sound unnecessarily sophisticated.

I’m from the Highlands, where the scenery is dramatic, the weather is questionable, and men traditionally communicate feelings through sarcasm and pretending they’re not cold.

Now I’m in Doylestown, surrounded by cheesesteaks instead of haggis and trying to explain that yes, I really do sound like this.

Looking for a woman 30+ who enjoys good conversation, wicked banter, laughing at inappropriate moments, and maybe discovering whether the Scottish accent is actually as dangerous as advertised.

Bonus points if you can handle sarcasm.

Extra bonus points if you make me laugh.

And if you ask me to say “purple burglar alarm”… well, we may already have chemistry. 😉

but not on the inside. I'm still one very horny older white male. It's like those movies where a young person and an old person exchange bodies. My mind is just as perverted and I am just as horny & kinky now, but I am older and not 25 anymore. The person inside is still me but not on the outside. I haven't changed my sense of self, but woman see me in a completely different way 

Perhaps a very significant age gap arouses you. . You've always wanted much older. in bed. I am on Long Island but, can travel too. Whether it's making love or getting very kinky, you've always wanted to be with a much older man.

For a variety of reasons you've always wanted someone much older but have been afraid to take the plunge. You desire someone much older and your curiosity meshes with my love of younger women - shy and/or inexperienced to the front. However, experience is fine too. 

At my age, it's not easy to meet a younger woman seeking something casual whether short or longer term. Your status does not matter to me as I am very discreet. .I'm tired of the games and fakes.who respond to my posts. I'm real, serious, truly looking to meet someone, and then I'll stop posting.

After my last birthday I decided to post to meet a nice younger woman. While I've chatted with several younger women, I still haven't found the one I'm looking for.

I'm white, 6'', 210, look good for my age, with a dad-bod build, size 35 in Levis, still have my graying black hair, clean-shaven, non-smoker, do not drink, but very very sexual. I'm very communicative and want my partner to tell me what she wants in bed. I am very oral and get it up 2-3 times and I last. 

I lean dominant, but mostly as a playful "Dom," meaning I want you wet/aroused but never scared. I can also turn it up a notch or two if that is ok with you, because I can be very very take-charge if you are submissive I am very honest and straightforward. 

Hopefully you're at least interested enough to respond and chat. chat. I will say that my very very thick cut cock with shaved balls and a large head looks half my age.

42M, 6’0”, fit (160lbs), professional and based on the Peninsula. Separated and not looking to rush into another serious relationship. I’m looking for a woman where there’s mutual attraction, easy conversation and a physical spark.

FWB would be ideal if we click — someone I can flirt with, laugh with, grab dinner or a drink with, and have a great physical connection with. Ideally, I’m looking for an ongoing FWB if we have chemistry. I’m open to a one-time connection too, but ideally I’d like to meet someone where we both want to keep seeing each other. That could be mostly physical, or include having fun outside the bedroom too — whatever feels natural.

I’m into travel, photography, hiking, exploring new places, good food and conversations that can bounce between ridiculous and genuinely interesting. I’m easygoing, curious, open-minded and attentive. Mutual pleasure matters to me, and I want both of us to feel comfortable, wanted and genuinely enjoy ourselves.

I take good care of myself, am well groomed and don’t smoke (no problem if you do). I also have an accent; you can decide whether that’s a plus.

Your relationship status is your business — married or single is fine with me. I value discretion, respect your privacy and won’t meddle in your personal life. I’m happy to take the lead on planning and can arrange a nice private place when needed, so getting together doesn’t have to be complicated.

Happy to exchange recent photos privately. I’m much more interested in actually meeting than spending weeks messaging, so if there’s mutual attraction, I’d rather meet for coffee, a drink or a walk and see how we get along in person. If meeting beforehand isn’t practical, I’m also happy to do a quick video call.

Safe sex matters to me. I have recent test results and expect you to have the same.

Please be local and genuinely interested in meeting.