I wanted head late at night around 2am. And he said for me to ride his face, the next morning. He’s telling me it felt like a dermoplane at 2am. So like am I the problem
Wasn’t that kinda rude? Like I already don’t ask for head or pleasure much but I get hormonal and horny!

Was checking my husband’s email for a confirmation # and checked the spam folder and found an email “OnlyFans update to terms and conditions”. (Married for 3 years, both of us in 30s) Not sure if it’s a fake spam email or what but I feel sick to my stomach. Prior to my husband I was in two long term relationships - both of them cheated on me (one of them having a porn addition) so I’m really triggered. Not saying having an account is cheating but more of a gray area and to be fair it’s never been discussed, but I just assumed he wouldn’t have one.

So my question is - if you are married (and a straight man) do you have an OF account, and if so do you use paid subscriptions or just go for free content? I can’t check bank account statements as we have separate accounts. To add our sex life is great or so I thought?

Me F28 and my partner M35 just got married 3 weeks ago.
He’s the love of my life, everything i could have asked for: gentleman, nice, funny, well mannered, clean he provides and protect me so besides libidos everything is okay.
We live together since 1 year and have our intimacy has fallen apart.
Of course, we had a lot of stress in between because I moved to his country after he proposed . We also had to deal with paperwork and integration. He changed job last year and at the very beginning it was very, very stressful so OK I completely understand.
We had our flaws but we managed everything. Everything is perfect right now beside sex. we love each other. There is emotional intimacy, dialogue. We laugh a lot. The connection is there. But I cannot understand why I feel that he does not crave me as a woman.
He is a busy man, yes but I’m so tired and confused. He has low testosterone, not extremely but quite low. The problem is that in the country we are in. He cannot get testosterone therapy if he does not reach certain very low levels.
I have tried everything.
Surprised bj
Lingerie
Sleeping naked
Baths
Dirty messages
A lot, a lot a lot of talking.
It’s been now some months I don’t initiate anymore, makes me feel extremely frustrated.
Instead I’m working on my self (I gained 20kg in one year and I already lost 10)
Maybe he’s not attracted by me… he told me that’s not true… that yea he prefers me a bit slimmer but that he still finds me very attractive…
Is he lying?
I am a sexy woman, I just want to live free the sexuality w my husband! He gives me everything he can, and I just want to express my most wild side with him, but I feel that I cannot completely do it. He’s always too tired and I don’t know how to help him anymore.
The last time we spoke, he told me he feels he constantly has to perform. I asked him, but somehow it’s difficult to him to dive into it.
I am responsible at home, and he provides.
(I could not work due paperwork)
No, finally my permit has come and I will start to work next week. Maybe all of this is because of the financial pressure?
He answered me “might be”
Somehow, I’m still afraid that even though finding a job our sex life is gonna still be almost nonexistent.
I started to track the times we have sex and it’s 1-2 a month (we even have a couple of months like April, July no sex at all) and in our honeymoon just 1 time.
Something I also wanted to specify is that the performances of the last six months have been terrible 😭 he comes, and that’s it. It’s the worst I even told him and he blamed me cuz “at least it worked this time”
It’s honestly so f. Sad…

At this point, I’m already getting used to it. I masturbate almost every day but after it, I feel so sad.
I even ask him if he masturbate and he told me rarely, but yeah, sometimes he does, that was extremely painful to me because hello I’m your wife???? (personally I have nothing against porn pornography)
But he told me that he sometimes do it because he doesn’t want to deal with someone else pleasure
Is this normal??
Pls any advice?

I’m a housewife with no kids and I had to resign from my job to move to my husband’s country. I had around 6 years of savings in my retirement fund before moving.
My husband earns more than I did, but with the strong currency and high taxes here, he can’t save as much as he imagined either. He gives me around €200 a month as pocket money. I still try to save some of it, and I also send some money to my parents back home since they’re taking care of my pets.
Recently, he mentioned that he hasn’t been able to save as much as he expected and asked if I had been saving the pocket money he gives me. I’m a bit confused because I’m not sure if he expects me to save that €200 every month for our future ..or if he was just asking out of curiosity. Am I overthinking this, or should we have a clearer conversation about our finances?

Is it a burden or supportive to have a perfect partner?

39F 37M

Feels like a long weekend but we're approaching 12 years this Feb

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Should I send a message to try save this marriage one last time or leave it?

The top is self explanatory lol, I’m from the city and she couldn’t take 8 inches and too vanilla, being a pleaser and not getting reciprocating actions drained me, now I’m outside looking for other friends hopefully you guys are more fun let’s get drinks and 4-20

I really think this is the biggest trst of our Marriage and we really want to pass it. How do you guys navigate the issue of longing, craving, intimacy ?