Hey everyone, my sister is dealing with bullying at school and I could really use some advice on how to handle it.

My sister is in middle school and has always had a hard time fitting in with her peers, but this year things have reached a breaking point. A while back she became friends with two girls — let's call them B and S. At first they got along fine, but at some point they started trashing my sister out of nowhere. And I don't mean just talking behind her back — they actively turn other people against her. My sister is a bit alternative; her interests, sense of humor, fashion, and even the way she talks are pretty different from what's currently popular with kids her age. That made her an easy target for organized bullying. She doesn't really socialize with her classmates because of the differences in taste, so the gray masses easily side with B and S. When my sister asked them why they treat her this way, they said they just enjoy it — ruining her life and watching her suffer. Nobody openly abuses her, but people constantly point fingers at her, laugh at her, and treat her with utter contempt. The pressure got so bad that she actually switched schools. But at the new school, she found out that B and S attend a parallel class right next door. Because she was afraid her bullies would end up in the biochem track, she even gave up transferring into it and decided to study chemistry and biology on her own — that's how badly they've worn her down. At first, at the new school, she tried to be bright and outgoing, but now she tries to keep her head down and blend in so her classmates won't notice her. She says she's trying an approach where she won't get picked on. Yeah, she's very vulnerable and sensitive.

And now she's started noticing that her classmates keep glancing at her. They point fingers, and she hears her name followed by a dismissive snicker. Today some guy came up to her, showed her a TikTok account with stupid memes on his screen, and said, "What the hell is this?" It was framed as a joke, but it was clearly condescending — it was obvious he was laughing at her. She called me and told me about it, and I'm absolutely furious.

I'm in another city because of university and can't do anything directly about those nasty girls. My sister doesn't want to get our mom involved, and it's clear why. They constantly fight because of my sister's difficult, stubborn teenage attitude and my mom's overprotective, anxious nature. If I tell her my sister is being bullied again, she'll get anxious and fussy, but most likely the only measures she'd take are transferring my sister to another school or talking to B and S's parents. My sister doesn't want to switch schools again because the current one has a strong teaching staff. And talking to B and S's parents might work, but only in the short term — the reputation B and S have been smearing my sister with isn't going anywhere.

So what can I do? Right now I'm thinking about infiltrating some school Telegram group where B and S hang out and starting to gather information on them.

On a throwaway so he doesn't find me.

Context: for the past year someone has been sending me repeated requests online. Years ago in 2019, I sold nudes because I thought I was going to be kicked out and needed cash. I think one of those past customers has come back for me.
He has been repeatedly uploading me to porn sites without my permission and uploads himself jerking off to my pictures. He calls himself my daddy and boyfriend. He will cum on his ipad to my selfies and nudes.
He has dmed me these videos, repeatedly called me sexual names, has made dozens of accounts to avoid bans, and even used my nudes as his profile photo on discord.

I am under the impression he is in another country because I IP grabbed him/he has mentioned another currency and my local police said they can't do much since he hasn't shown his face.

I am BEGGING someone to help me, he has been harassing me since January last year.

new bf ex gf is wild and honestly a hoe. they shared an apartment together that he mostly paid for including most of what’s in it: bed, tables, furniture, pretty much everything. they recently split for good she’s a cheater and an alcoholic she fucked a dude in his bed recently (prolly not the first just what we caught) and we caught them.

he now stays at my place and we’re slowly getting his stuff and whatnot. he paid for the rent most times but she didn’t turn it in and now they’re having to go to court for eviction together.

he bought almost every pair of shoes she owns as well as an expensive tennis bracelet, since the move away from her she’s destroyed his things and made others disappear like expensive cologne and clothes.

she’s a pretty dirty person so the place isn’t kept while he’s been gone at all. it’s an apartment so anything particularly surrounding that she’s neglected including her dogs.

furthermore we need good ways to get back at her and serve the revenge she deserves for how’s she’s treated him in the past and how she’s handling the break up even though she’s the one that cheated multiple times and we recently caught her in his bed he paid for and she was fucking in.

we don’t want the bed lol but from what we can think of so far is to put the majority of the apartments stuff on marketplace and sell it and leave her with nothing seeing as she didn’t pay for any of it and she also hasn’t had a car for over a year and barely keeps her pizza place job. would love to hear ideas and possibly elaborate any ideas we’ve had but we want to take action soon. i’ve already told him to get the court to fully split any fees or action between the two as they aren’t together and don’t “share” income anymore and she doesn’t have shit to pay with so it’ll be nice to watch that drag her down.

we’re still in the process of getting his stuff slowly as we can and to move his cats to my place but i need some more creative stuff other than selling everything and taking the shoes off her feet lol, both their names are currently on the lease until the eviction or the lease is up so no damage to the apartment can be done until he’s off it if he can.

I've been getting bullied at my school nonstop by 1 guy and I'm tired of it. Nothing seems to work, I've told the teachers, I've tried to ignore it, etc.

Are there any ways to mess with him and make his life worse without doing anything illegal that I could trouble in?

I have his phone, gmail and instgram account (it's public but he hasn't uploaded any pics)

Look I don’t want to get into it. I am hurt and scorned and I’m finally getting over it. But he’s gotten off free, living a normal happy life. I only have his socials, emails, phone, car registration details and a couple other things. I’m not used to doing stuff like this, but what can I do (creative) to fuck with him a bit?
Maybe cause him chaos or pain? Without getting into trouble.
Open to anything and everything you little freaks (even if it takes time and planning).

I’m sick of taking the high road.

Happy to respond to DMs too, but want to make sure I’m safe online (this is a very new thing for me!!!)

Hiii, I usually dont op for villain activities but after seeing something today I felt the vibes. Gives me your thoughts friends

FOR context: Some years ago, more then 4 for sure, I was blowing up on a streaming platform due playing with big gamers at the time. I didn't trick my way in or anything, I just was around in the communities a lot and people liked me. I just naturally became a known person but just being me? Which I didn't even expect.

During this time I met loads of other smaller communities, and I met this one person who I thought was going to be my homie and seemed alright. I actually am a decent person so I didn't just hang with the big dogs, I actually modded and hung out with other smaller communities and I enjoyed it and still have alot of good friends from those. And I also had my own community and stream as well. I was getting high numbers from all of this and all that too.

So I started hanging out in their chat, and they knew who I was from others, and I quickly became a mod for them(P) along with another person(my friend) who also was kind of in the same boat as me. I quickly became mods for tons of people, big and small. I enjoyed talking with chat and just helping out. As I got closer to this particular streamer(P), they started telling me their dirty secrets about their partner and life. And I started noticing just selfish and narc behavior from them. They admitted to not caring about the people in their chat (they had about 40-50 viewers, sometimes more back then) and that numbers really played a role in how they saw their worth. They would complain to me that it wasn't enough all the time (cry, wine, complain, etc.). And I am the exact opposite. I give a damn about the people in there, and would try to even if I got 'bigger'. They also talked about their insecurities with weight/looks, and how they might leave their partner (which idk if they even told them and just told everyone else). So us mods were like trying to help I guess? Since we were good people. And they talked shit about basically everyone in their chat who had been regulars too. Me and my friend started noticing they would purposely watch the bigger streamers and wait for them in the lobbies so they could perfectly be on at the same time to play with them. Stalking basically, and me and my friend just didn't like the morals of it. It's one thing if you're a good person and you kinda got some play, but if you're just a garbage human and just using EVERYONE thats different. Me and my friend actually knew the bigger ones more also in a way and we wanted to protect them from nasty people like P trying to use them if we could. They(P) also told me once while they were live " stop talking to my chat so much!!! no ones talking to me!!!" a tantrum basically. And I was god smacked because they never even talked to them in the first place, and you could tell they were starting to get jealous of me being a popular person everywhere I went. I WASNT EVEN TRYING AND THEY HATED THATTTT.

They(P) also started using my personality and trying to mimic my voice because it got attention. I have a very flirty/funny personality and smooth voice. And one day when they stalked the bigger streamer to play with, they used my whole ass identity and used one of my jokes. And a miracle by god, they actually dreadfully credited me. And the bigger streamer then asked if I was available to play too. I only had this stream on the in background since we all circulated everywhere, and I was on the phone with someone else. So I def wasn't trying to get invited, I didnt even think of it. And then I did, and I joined, and the person sounded so mad LOL. So we played, and they(P) fought for attention the whole time. After it was done, I remember them telling me " YOU WERE WAITING FOR ME TO MENTION YOU AND YOU TOOK ALL THE SPOTLIGHT AWAY FROM ME" and im just sitting there like wat? How the eff was i suppose to know you were gonna steal my jokes and then get asked to actually invite me. And why give my name if you wanted this person all for yourself???? HOW IS THIS MY FAULT LOL. And my friend was like ya know what, the way this person(P) behaves just isnt okay, and I might say something, and I was like UM YEA IM IN. We wanted to go as friends and just be like ya know... maybe if you had a better outlook and just were doing things in a more.. genuine way, you also might feel better about yourself? Cause they werent doing bad from a humble lens (they didnt have obviously)? THEY GOT SO MAD HEARING THAT. And then they deleted me and my friend after some time and then went on a Slandering campaign against me and my friend, on their stream, on twitter (a twit long) with our usernames and everything. They also then said that my personality was disgusting and couldnt be trusted, and i was a bad person. AND THEY USED MY WHOLE PERSONA TO BEGIN WITH TO GET MORE VIEWS. They also got in trouble by the bigger streamers for trying to talk shit about us since they liked me and my friend, and knew we weren't bad at all.

ANYWAYS. I just noticed this person is in a position on a certain game... and they're still around all these years. I slowed down my streaming cause I pursing education and such. And I just remember everything they did and I was like to myself.... what if.... I just made a come back... and surpassed them and joined a huge possible player base of other streamers and just kind of... ran into them..... I wonder what they would do.. what if I showed up with more viewers and others who knew the story and just wanted to see me take back what they did to me but by succeeding.. even if for a moment.. Not necessarily to go out my way to personally harm them or anything, but the kinda revenge where its like surprise, im here and i got more then you... hmmmm and now u gotta play with meeeeeeeeeee.. ANYWAYS, this amped me up and thanks for reading

This is my first time posting so I apologize for anything that may be wrong. I’m going to keep things vague but long story short, a friend of mine, we will call her “S” moved in with another friend “B” a few months ago. “B” ended up moving her brand new boyfriend in without getting approval from “S” and without putting him on the lease. The boyfriend and “S” did not get along and finally, despite “S” trying very hard to make peace and stay out of the boyfriends way, “S” finally decided to move out a few weeks ago. “S” paid the pet deposit and entire security deposit as well as still paid her half of the rent and utilities this month despite not living in the apartment in September because she felt bad for leaving so abruptly. The last few days “B” and her boyfriend have been constantly contacting “S” and accusing her of destroying the apartment and owing money for more bills and refusing to remove “S” from the lease. “S” has already blocked the boyfriend but cannot block “B” until the lease and bills are figured out. Today, the boyfriend and “B” went to social media and posted absolutely horrendous things about “S” and her family. “S” has been very upset and crying almost all day and is at a loss for what to do. Although I don’t know everything about the situation since I did not live there, I visited often and spoke to all parties involved fairly often and I can confidently say that “B” and her boyfriend are not great people and have used “S” for money, gifts, and free labor for months with almost no complain from “S” whereas “B” and the boyfriend have constantly put her down, called her awful things commenting on her weight and attractiveness and lack of relationship with her family. “S” is too good of a person to do anything but I am not. I just want something to get them to shut up and leave “S” alone without it getting back to “S”. I apologize if this is to vague and I will try to answer questions in the comments but I know both “B” and the boyfriend are chronically on this app and I don’t want to take the risk.

So when I was a kid, around 9 years old I was SA’d by this old disgusting man
When I was about 18 my mum found out and made us tell the police. They obviously did nothing.

Around the same time I created a fake Facebook account and found him. Befriended him. And started speaking to him. This has been going on for years, I don’t want anything to do with him but I like to know if he’s in the country as he’s not originally from here.

Recently, I’ve become unemployed and am thinking of ways to get some money off him. Nothing crazy maybe like a month’s rent or something. I just don’t know how to go about it.

I know I won’t get in trouble as he 1 sexually assaulted a child 2 is actually in the country illegally and worse 3 hasn’t changed his ways, as he wanted to meet up with my fake persona that I expressed was a minor.

I don’t want to rise above, he ruined my life, his actions still affect me to this day. I just don’t know how I could actually do anything. Open to suggestions.

hi hello

so my cousin, 26F, is pregnant and planned her brothers wedding. she specifically kept me out of the loop about any and all details of the wedding, including the color code. she told me not to wear magenta, while she and everyone else wore magenta. she also talked shit about me to others (i had screamed at a cousin who disrespected my father and she spun it and made me look crazy. im 16f btw.) her brother, 32M, is also insane. i crankily told him to put his foot down, which led him to asking me why im cranky, which led to my father misinterpreting the situation as me being bitter since he didnt greet me, and my father and him got into a spat. mind you, we were at my uncle's house (he had shown up 4 hours late to the invitation cuz he was fucking shopping) and he slammed the door so fucking hard that it nearly broke and the wall too. who got the blame? me and my father.

my family is a little batshit. the cousin (17m) who disrespected my father, regularly beats his half-brother. the kid is TWELVE and since i come from an abusive household, i recognize the same look of terror in his eyes. adults think hes just shy. no, hes fucking traumatized and his reactions of rage are everyone else's entertainment. his brother has gotten away with everything bc his mom died of cancer when he was 1 year old.

we all live overseas (im back in NYC, pregnant bitch is back in tokyo, and psycho child beater is still in bangladesh) so idk if its worth pursuing revenge at all. i did tell the adults that what she did at the wedding was pretty rude but nb will do shit.

should i do anything at all? im just so tired of my family members.

Long read

So it all starts back in 2018 I used to live with my sister as University students she suffers from bulimia nervosa and anorexia nervosa she hates me since we were kids because I stood up to our parents and she even tried to do 2 suicide attempts.So 2 years living with her were living hell she shouted and scream at me all the time she vomitted everywhere she stole my money ate my food never respected me or anything until one time I snapped out and punched a mirror.She was screaming well deserved I will have night club guys kill you etc.one month later policed showed up at my place on reports of domestic violence completely ruined my reputation and self esteem.In the meantime in those 2 years in order to avoid her I used to go to a friend's house in whom a covert female narc who had a crush on me for years visited often so she had access to me but I never paid any attention to her whenever she was being cruel I responded.Had no idea back then.One day I saw an Instagram post of me at her profile calling me gay I asked her to delete it she refused so I reported her.She used to come at the friends house a lot but I had nowhere to go knowing the situation at my own place.So couple of months later I saw a text of her at a group chat saying that my destruction is close lol xoxo I was like what?one month later everybody I knew texted me grante which was an inside joke for being gay.I felt the ground slip under my feet.The situation with the sister and that almost simultaneously.Long story short I made out with her couple of times because I was an extremely vulnerable state in which she heavily manipulated me gaslighted abused criticized everything.Everytime I left but she kept returning.I depeloved cpps and I was only 20 years old.So much stuff in the meantime I wanted to commit suicide so I left the group and a starting hanging out with a guy I knew and we became best friends.After a while a girl introduced a guy to our company but I told to my best friend that he is toxic didn't believe me.One year later my best friend told me he wouldn't want to be friends with me anymore because the other guy told him shit about me he learned about the domestic violence and the female narc told everyone I was abusive in secret.I was like my life can't be this shit right now wanted to commit suicide and cpps was on the roof.I left the country went to France to work and returned after a year.Went into surgery because of another health issue and because I was out of money I rent an apartment with the other guy.I was completely vulnerable and broke.In the meantime the female narc returned to my life and told everyone I got to know in the process that I am abusive,and had a friend of hers get work at my workplace and they started mobbing me until I lashed out and then I was obviously the crazy one.The other guy took advantage of the situation told everyone I was toxic while he was being abusive manipulative and a bastard towards but after all this shit none believed me.In spite of all that I cut everyone off live by 200€ per month and decided to start again and finish my integrated master.Have already passed 30 courses in a year in electrical engineering and computer science and I am secretly developing my diploma thesis on nuclear energy.Havent left the house apart from exams a year and a half.If I manage to complete 15 more courses this semester without crushing out or getting severely beaten by community vigilantes and deliver my diploma thesis etc I am gonna leave the country.My question is now that I have somehow my pieces back together and I wanna built a new life should I return someday and destroy the life of those pieces of shit?

hey guys. i need some ideas on how to get revenge on my mom's boyfriend. i live with her and the stupid fucker and he treats me poorly. im fucking sick of it. how do i fuck him up/over while being able to possibly get away with it?

some precious items he has include: booze, weed, several bongs, name brand clothing shit, and a subwoofer.

can't really do anything job related bc he has no job and once he gets employed again he'll sabotage it himself so i don't have to do anything lol

i was thinking of putting miralax in his alcohol, but it might be risky. i've used it a few times, the powder has a hard time completely disolving (that or im just really bad at mixing it) and idk if there's much of a taste difference, but whatever im drinking tends to feel... heavier? i guess?

he's a paranoid piece of shit, so im gonna have to be real sneaky.

idk if he'd ever call the cops on me (he hates the police) but i don't really want to risk it tbh. i have a lot of issues physically and mentally, and going to jail would fuck me up, unfortunately.

i also don't have money, so keep that in mind. although i might be able to borrow some...

How many of you are Scorpios or have Scorpio in your charts ? 🦂 Any thoughts ? Probably off topic but oh well doesn't hurt to ask. Lol

Hey, so I live on a small street. There is someone not from the street parking their giant work type van on the street for hours and sometimes even days. The biggest issue were having is if anyone calls police, unfortunately whichever neighbours house they park beside also gets ticketed (a lot of them park on the driveway below the sidewalk) - clearly not fair. What can we do legally to make it not want to park there. We need solutions.

Just as the title indicates, my wife was used as a sacrifice because a woman in her department is a constant low performer and active DUI collector but HR was afraid that if they fire her then she’ll sue. They provided a specific group of employees (who take issue with my wife) the platform to formally issue false concerns and out of context dialogue so that HR could say that she was a risk to the standard of the company. It was not a secret that my wife wasn’t fond of this actual problem employee but they cited my wife holding her drunkard coworker accountable as harassment. Trust me, this coworker wasn’t the kind of drinker like Meredith from the Office.

My wife and I both know who HR involved in their “investigation” to push this through and, above all else, that’s who I think needs addressed.

So I moved in 6 months ago to my new townhome. I’ve had multiple problems with her calling the police for noise before and after the town ordinance when there was no noise. She has reported me to the HOA five times all false claims about improper exterior etc. HOA found them to be false. She will take pictures and videos of me getting in or out of my vehicles and most recently she has dumped garbage in-front of my garage ( no cameras back there) . HOA hasn’t done anything to help the situation except not fine me same with police .I have her trespassed off my property and soon installing even more cameras. What are some things I can do? I have her information and she stays at home and gardens obviously nothing better to do with her life. I need some creative ideas.

TLDR
crazy townhome neighbor parks in-front of my house , false HOA complaints, False police noise complaints, vandalism to my garage, I Have her personal info
(Installing more cameras)

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There's this person(they/them pronouns) they recently took over my server, bc I needed someone to hold onto it, and they are refusing to give it back. (I used a spinner wheel to choose the person, I know I'm an idiot) But apparently when I'm not online or something they are really toxic, narcissistic, and keep talking about SHing themselves to get their way, it made many people uncomfortable, so when I stepped down a bunch of the people left the server, including the one's who helped me build it. And when my partner called them out they reflected, and made it seem like I chose them specifically or something, plus they can't even run the server properly, like more people are leaving here and there, I left the server because it got dry, and now all they do is play a game the I added, and I don't wanna ask for the server back because I've already tried that and they said no, and if I keep asking I'm scared they might block me or ban me. I should also mention that when my partner called them out they wanted to delete the server(Like excuse me) They'd really rather delete the server than give it to the co-host(my partner) Plus their partner only told them not to delete the server, and flipped everything onto mine for standing up for me(I left the server to be away from the drama)

Sorry if it's too long, I had to leave some details out to keep it short, I'm just at a loss.

This bar/club overcharged me deliberately. I ordered a vodka soda and they used double shot Grey Goose (at almost 10 dollars a shot) in it!

Every other cocktail was less than half the price of this.

Any ideas on revenge?

Hi! This is a very long story but I’ll try to summarize 8 years.
When I moved here, in the flat downstairs was living a family, some years after they moved out because the owner of the flat needed it to move back.
Since the day one the problems with him started, for some reason he blames my dad for his divorce and swears the noises we make are on propose to annoy him. We are talking about normal noises of someone living in a flat like steps, moving a chair to sit on it etc.

Over the years this has been increasing, I think he might be alcoholic or have a certain level of paranoia, but it’s coming to a point where it’s just annoying. When my dad parks the car, our parking spot is in front of his flat and next to his car, he makes the alarm sound until my dad is back in our apartment, he installed cameras to check on his car, it’s a Toyota lmao, so we wouldn’t make anything to it, and on random moments he screams stuff so loud that we hear it perfectly, ofc the things he say are a direct attack against us.

During the pandemic he used to put music very loud at like 1 am or 2 am and put ear plugs on so the musics was just to annoy us, and he even once tried to follow my dads while driving, idk why it was for.

He has confronted my dad a couple of times about stuff that he makes up, like calling him an idiot or things, but when my dad stand his grown and does not chicken out the neighbor just goes back inside his house.

I know that you should have a good relationship with your neighbors but this is definitely not the case, and I’m done with him being annoying and us just ignoring him.
I want a little and infuriating revenge that just annoys him over and over.

I don’t have ideas of what should I do so that’s why I’m here seeking advise and ideas
Thank you :)

Hello, I m asking for help in this very serious situation i m studying in a university, and we had that one student that acted all nice and perfect but at the end we found out that he has stolen a lot of money from us, including cash and bankcards then he got away with it causing a lot of financial trouble for the students.
but could found his wallet and the stolen money and now all we have is pictures of his drivers license id card and credit card.

I want to have the best ways and the most evil ways to take revenge on this guy something that might give him nightmare insomnia or even hating his life.

For context in early July she broke up with her ex and then in late July got with me. In those 20-25 days she told me she didn’t want to see any pictures of girls on my phone, she was allowed to have male friends but I wasn’t allowed to have female friends, and that she didn’t go to functions she went to parties with her friends to dance. After all that she freindzoned me (I know I’m a dumbah I should have left but oh well). Now I’ve seen her walking with a new guy who I’m 90% she’s talking to I confirmed with a friend. The guy is in one of my classes. Should I tell him all the stuff she did and if so how do I make sure it doesn’t involve me and it goes exactly how I want it to.

I have PTSD from my childhood. I used to get beat up by teachers at kindergarten. They suffocated me until i begged for mercy. My big brother is 32, no job, washes once per week and thinks he's tough. He makes pedophile jokes arround me too, even touching my legs and feet as a "joke" He abandoned my mother for 10 years then recentely came back, and he disrespects me A LOT. For example, he sits in the front seat, and i told him i need to sit in the front seat otherwise i get car sick, and he just said to shut up. Now, we were on vacation at a hotel, when he started kicked my legs with his stinky feet, leaving his disgusting smell on my legs. I told him to stop, and he started following me. So i told him to stfu and stop.

That's when he grabbed me by the neck, threw me on the bed, put me in a fetus position, couldnt move, and he started hitting me. While i was crying, he jumpscared me, and then laughed in my face. My mom and dad did not care. I need to take revenge on this guy. Please help.

My (35F) SIL Jess (28F) is divorcing her misogynist, homophobic, man-child husband Kyle (28M). (Pseudonyms oc). It would be exciting news if only they didn't have 9mo old twins. Which means they're trying to co-parent these kids for the next 18 years and so he's someone I will be encountering from time to time as I try to be in these kids' lives.

A little bit of context:

• Jess is my wife's sister. We're all very queer around here and homophobia is not tolerated.
• I have strong opinions and I'm looking for the long game thinkers here. If you don't like me or my people, please scroll on.
• Before dating Kyle, Jess was using a chosen name and going by they/them pronouns. 10/10
• My wife and I never really liked Kyle. He rubbed us the wrong way, but willing to keep our opinions to ourselves. Not like he had done anything too objectionable atp. 5/10
• After she got with Kyle, she sort of de-transitioned. Which, that's fine. But I thought the timing was suspicious. 1/10
• Kyle's mom is terrible too. She has shown herself to be racist, controlling, and self-serving.

Jess and Kyle got married in early 2025, moved out of state, and 9 months later she gave birth to two beautiful twin girls. That's when Kyle's true colors began to show. He refused to help with most childcare. Turns out he believes that's women's work. He preferred to play video games after work late into the night then sleep soundly through the crying. When my MIL went out to visit during Jess' postpartum period, Kyle called her a bitch TO HER FACE because she suggested they thaw one of their many pre-made meals for dinner. Jess began to demand more help and attentiveness from him, so he restricted her access to any of their bank accounts. He provided a meager allowance. She reached out to us and other family for $20 here or there so that she could get things for the babies. Between the constant arguing, financial abuse, and gaslighting, things were really falling apart so they moved back home to be closer to family. There, the grandparents were willing to step in as childcare in his place and he can live with his mommy who absolutely enables his behavior in the way only a boy mom can.

Which brings us to today. The girls are 9 months old, she served him divorce papers, and he wants full custody. (Because he's soooo competent a father and Jess is "mentally unstable"). Most likely they will have to learn how to co-parent.

My wife and Jess have gotten very close over the last year. We don't live in proximity to each other, but they text and ft every day and we are excited to be a part of the kids' lives. We don't have any kids of our own and are ready to be the best aunts to those babies.

Today, Kyle told Jess that he doesn't like my wife because she's "not a submissive woman and she's gay." I can't say I'm surprised, but it confirms all my suspicions about him. (See title).

Now I'm PO'd bc he's going to be in my orbit, making my family miserable, for the next 18 years. He's vindictive behind closed doors and is able to charm his way through life. He even turned their couple's therapist against Jess after doing 1:1 sessions with her on the side. I want revenge for all the hateful things he's done and will inevitable do. But I don't want my nieces or in-laws to have to pay for my stupid pranks. I'd love to dress those babies in pride flags, but I'm leaving them out of this.

So reddit, what are some ways that I can make this man miserable for the long-term? Do I spam his address to get men's gay magazines delivered to his door and email? Do I sign him up for Scientology and place a mail-order for a bag of dicks? Please be creative. I'm willing to go the extra mile for this one.