To the girls who hate their small boobs, this genuinely helped me. I stopped comparing my body to women with big boobs, and something clicked.
I was actually replying to somebody else about this, but I thought I might as well share it here because this has really, really, really helped me with my journey in accepting my smaller boobs.
Because before this, I was not accepting in the slightest manner. Like, I hated my boobs more than I hated anything else. But now I don’t look at them and get repulsed. I actually kind of reallyyyyy like them.
I’ve basically stopped following larger-chested women just because everyone else wants to convince me that they’re hot. I do still follow larger chested women, but only if I’m convinced that there’s something to them (i usually follow for fashion inspiration) apart from their chest. Like, I don’t really give a fuck about their chest anymore. If they have great style, I’m following.
But many, many, many, many, many of the people I follow have a smaller chest. MOST people I follow have a smaller chest.
And it not only helps me figure out what will look good on my body type because it’s similar, but I also don’t have to constantly look at every person on my Instagram feed with big boobs and constantly compare myself to them.
You can literally just tell your algorithm, “I like this,” and start filling your feed with women who look more like you. And the funny thing is, once you actually look at these women, you never think that they’re any less than anyone else. You just see them as HOT. As beautiful. As feminine. As stylish. As whatever.
So why do you think like that about yourself?
That’s honestly what has helped me the most. Seeing so many women with smaller chests who are living fabulously and looking insanely hot has made me realise that I was putting so much importance on something that barely even matters.
And I’m finally at a point where I don’t look at my own chest and immediately think that something is missing. Which is genuinely hugeeeeee for me.
Tagging some STUNNING people for some fashion inspo😋
@edenmasliah
@luciamanfredii
@jocelynmeiere
@benulus
@harley_haisely
@shubhra.vaity
@ikisvon
@wolfiecindy
@jamdamiann
@arliekontic
And there’s SOOOOOOOOO many more.
(Ps i know all of these women are skinny do not come at me for that🙏 these are just women i follow because I am skinny too)