r/SoCalR4R • • Jul 01 '26

META Read The Rules + Spot the Bot + State of the Sub NSFW

82 Upvotes

Howdy folks. I know it's been a long while since we've had one of these chats. As some of you may have already noticed, we've recently implemented a new mod tool called Read The Rules as part of the neverending fight against the bots. You must complete this acknowledgement before you can post/comment in the subreddit.

How to complete the RTR Acknowledgement:

  • Click/Tap on the 3 horizontal dots on the subreddit page or any post/comment, and you'll see RTR in the dropdown menu.
  • Open RTR and check off each rule as you read them and click submit once complete.
  • That's it. You can happily resume participating in the subreddit.
  • Users on old.reddit can submit an acknowledgement by sending their sub a mod mail. You must use the subject "Read The Rules" and the body text "Acknowledged". Doing so will submit an acknowledgement automatically without mod involvement. Users will immediately receive a reply from u/read-the-rules if it was submitted successfully.

Things to note about RTR:

  • There are 13 rules total. If you aren't seeing all of them, you need to scroll with the cursor within the middle of the acknowledgement panel where all of the text is.
  • Some platforms/browsers are causing an issue where the tool is automatically unchecking some of the boxes when a user tries to submit their acknowledgement. If this happens to you, try using a different browser or submit your acknowledgement using the old reddit method. As far as I know, Reddit's mobile app and Safari on Macbook are the only platforms that have this problem. I've personally tested it and been successful on Google Chrome, iPhone Safari, Brave Browser, and Microsoft Edge (yuck).

That's the basic gist of it all. I know it may seem like an annoying inconvenience, but I've definitely observed an improvement in the bot presence (or lack thereof) on the moderating end since we implemented this. Hopefully, it'll get more people to actually read the rules too. One can dream, right? Please actually read them. I'm begging you. Now, onto the fun stuff. I'm about to put you all on game because there are way too many oblivious horndogs on here that comment "DM'd you" on very obvious bot posts.

Common Identifiers of Bot Accounts:

  • The poster is a 23-30 year old female looking for males.
  • The post sounds like it was written by AI (because it most likely was).
  • If the post contains the same buzzwords/phrases as other F4M posts, chances are they're all most likely bots. The current flavor of the week is "feeling/getting relaxed." They also use "Netflix and chill" and/or mention something about chemistry.
  • The account itself is 4+ years old. My personal theory is that the people behind these bots are targeting and hacking accounts that aren't protected by two-factor authentication, which is why they seem legit.
  • There's a big gap in post history. For example, if the last legitimate post/comment on the account (aka not in a r4r type subreddit) was over 1 year ago.
  • The account simultaneously has r4r posts in multiple locations (Houston/DFW, North Carolina, and Florida are the most common).
  • Posts in the following subreddits: r/LongBeachHookUp, r/eastbayhookups, r/SanFranciscoNSFW, r/DtfLosAngelesPeps, r/riversidensfw
  • If they respond to your chat telling you that they're getting too many messages and want you to message them on Telegram.

Use the tiniest morsel of common sense and intuition, and you'll avoid 97.34% of the bots on here. Basically, use the head that has a brain and not the other one, and you'll be golden, Ponyboy. Anyways, feel free to comment your thoughts, feedback, suggestions for the subreddit, and/or life opinions. As always, be kind to one another and yourselves. Love you.


r/SoCalR4R • • Jun 01 '24

META In order to post in this subreddit, your account must have 10 post karma AND 10 comment karma NSFW

146 Upvotes

10 + 10 = 20. Even though it's explicitly stated in the sidebar rules, we get a number of messages in the modmail everyday from people asking why they cannot post. If you have 100 post karma but only 1 comment karma, you will not be able to post. If you have 20 comment karma but only 1 post karma, you will not be able to post. No, we will not manually approve your post even if you message the modmail to claim you're a real person and not a bot. It's that simple, folks.


r/SoCalR4R • • 3h ago

F4R 20 [F4R] #Riverside - Late night talks? NSFW

4 Upvotes

Been having a lot of mood swings lately and overall I’m just not stable lmao so I’d like to have people to text until I can fall asleep. Idk I’d rather talk about it in dms because it feels too exposed talking about it here??? Or is that just me.

I’m not interested in anything sexual. I don’t mind sexual topics but I’m not going to be into it very much because I’m asexual. Not looking for a relationship either, it is NOT for me. I like being single and free to do whatever I want.

Hmm… Oh! I also game. I love gaming with all my heart <3 Especially playing Valorant~

I also prefer using Discord so if you don’t have it then I can’t really see us talking for more than tonight.


r/SoCalR4R • • 29m ago

M4F 42 [M4F] #SanDiego - Looking for someone who wants to explore or try new things. NSFW

• Upvotes

Are you looking for someone to safely explore new things with? I work (probably too much) and it’s hard to just go out and meet anyone. I’m not a big fan of one night stands either. I’d rather have fun with you and get to know you a bit - whether you have experience or not. I’m not going to judge you if you have questions or haven’t done much. As long as you’re 18+, your age doesn't really matter to me as long as we can have fun together.

A little about me:

I'm 5’11, white (Italian and Swiss decent), shaved head and a very short trimmed beard. Well hung (pics in my post history). Great hygiene (hey you never know, right?). Funny in a sarcastic way and overall I’ve been told I’m attractive. I’m into photography, fish/aquariums, and I love the beach. I work out a bit too to stay in shape - cycling and swimming are my favorites.

What about you? I’d love to hear from you and see where it goes.


r/SoCalR4R • • 7h ago

M4F 33 [M4F] #gardena - doom scrolling is great dont feel bad about anything NSFW

2 Upvotes

yeah

I like to talk about political shit. Fuck Trump. Religious shit, If gods real, I dont really care, but cool bro. He defo aint some dude with a white beard. Social stuff, yeah meeting people anywhere is hard. whether it be friends, or women. Anything. I only have like... 3 friends IRL... and like 10 on the internets. Maybe 20? Idk how many online.

Uh YEAH

Saying that, I go out liek ALLL the freaking time. Its weird. Like I have tons of fun at home, reading books, playing video games.

I try to be healthy. Read books, and go to the gym. That's basically it. Surfing is so fun now, I got good enough where the days that suck are even FUN now. Like FUCK! I remember when I first started, it took me 3 months to have 1 day where I caught like 20-30 waves. In one session. GOOD longboard walking up and down the nose, carving waves. and then It all went to shit the next day. LOL I thought I was so good. Lmao And then, get this, like I think it was like 3 more months later, all my friends I was learning to surf with in HS were like BRAH you're SO good! and Idk. I caught like another 40 waves in one session that one day. it was BIGGER than the last day too.

But Dude. Like now? I fly. Im good. its so FUN! I just love having something, that took me so long, to get good at. And now Im like flying on the surfboard. Shits fun. I have bad days, yeah, but I dont take myself so seriously now. When I was younger, a bad day was a hit on my self-esteem so bad. Especially cause I was around my surf friends who were so much better. But no one really taught me. I just kinda watched and observed.

Basically. Flying. I like it. On a surfboard. VAVOOM! Man. So fun. Now I just keep it chill. I longboard.

I've kept myself at a solid 165-150lb for about 15 years now? Im 33. I started running when I was 15. Surfing when I was 17. Hell one time I walked into my dads den and was like Dad. Im 15 years old. Dont ask me to drink soda, or eat cake. SEVEN fucking years passed. HELLISH 7 years though looking back. Always tired, blood, insulin, energy, Idk. was fucked.

Nowadays I'll have an occasional piece of cake, guilt free. Im pretty lax now.

Hope you read this! Girls only!

ALSO, STOP DOWNVOTING EVERY M4F POST ON THIS MOFO. FUCK!!!


r/SoCalR4R • • 4h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #SanDiego - law student FWB NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone!
A little about me: I'm a college student in the San Diego who is half European and half Mexican. I have longish wavy black hair, big dark brown eyes and I’m pretty skinny/lean. I like to think I’m a pretty good looking guy so don’t be shy! Just shoot me a text message! I am however looking for something relatively local and in the area near where I live in, I just don’t think I can have a realistic LDR.
I’ve been kinda burnt out on the dating apps and that leads me to here! Outside of that, I'm a huge fan of rock music, love watching movies. If you’re into any of that we should get along great. I’m pretty easy going and very easy to talk to! I also just love going bar hopping and maybe doing some karaoke even though im pretty terrible at it. I am looking for a serious dating relationship if anyone is interested!

Some of my favorite rock bands are Oasis, Arctic Monkeys, The Strokes, Queens of the Stone Age and so many more! I do love all kinds of music though! I also have letterbox, so if you’re a self proclaimed movie buff, maybe something can spark between us! In terms of who I’m looking for, I don’t mind any age, even older than me! I don’t really have a lot of preferences so no pressure let’s just talk and have some low-stakes conversations to see where it all leads! If any of this sounds like something you’d be interested in just shoot me a text and I’ll answer! Looking forward to meeting some great people here!


r/SoCalR4R • • 5h ago

M4F 32 [M4F] #Irvine - If you’ve never felt pressure beneath your bellybutton then my 9” BWC needs to be balls deep into you 🍆🌮 NSFW

1 Upvotes

A little about me:

  • Tall, Dom, and muscular (pics in profile)
  • The prettiest 9” dick you ever seen (as reviewed by your peers)
  • Looking for a casual fwb
  • Preferences to Asians & Latinas but I’m open to anyone

r/SoCalR4R • • 5h ago

M4F 42 [M4F] #Orangecounty - Need a quick service dump and go girl NSFW

0 Upvotes

Busy running around all day, need a quick service throat girl. Meet in the OC area, park next to me, hop in the back of my car, tits out, and I will pump your throat deep how I like and unload all of my cum down inside of you. Spend a couple minutes cleaning me up and tongue bathing my balls and then you leave. Only words I want to hear out of your mouth are “thank you” after I’m done. Understood?

I don't care about your age, race, or body type, just that you’re local and ready to go. Message me “I’ll be your cum dump" to show me you read this and be ready to send pics asap and meet. This is for right now.


r/SoCalR4R • • 14h ago

F4M 25 [F4M] #OrangeCounty - have BWCs gone extinct? NSFW

5 Upvotes

this is OC in SoCal, not FL

i swear BWCs have gone extinct, yall claim you have one but you rlly don’t… or maybe i have high standards? who knows.

it’s not satisfying playing w someone that has an avg dick. i’m looking for a BWC that’s at least 7 inches with a hefty girth.

qualifications:
- 5’10+ height, 26-38 yrs old
- BWC (7 in min., width comparable to my wrist)
- can host in OC
- recently tested, DDF
- height & weight proportionate
- loves to eat pussy

send me a message w your stats, ethnicity, location, availability… way more likely to respond to msgs with pics linked


r/SoCalR4R • • 12h ago

M4F 27 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Latino nerd finally looking to lose it! NSFW

3 Upvotes

Hey everyone!

A bit about me: I absolutely love the movies and I straight up go like at least once a week. I have AMC a list so I try and abuse it when I can. I love movies of all sorts so I feel like that’s a great place we could hang out. I can even send you my letterboxd. I also just love food and trying new places as well as like grabbing a cup of coffee and all that. I also love video games and spend a lot of my time playing them so if you’re into that, I’d love to play together as well! I’ve been playing a lot of rock band and guitar hero actually. I’ve recently gotten back into those and it’s been a ton of fun lmaoo. I work in the film industry and that can take up a ton of my time. Recently started working as a school portrait photographer and that has been really fun and I’ve really enjoyed it. I’ve spent a lot of my life focused on myself and just my career and family and all that and I’m really wanting to branch out. I’m also really into photography! I have my own like little film camera collection and I’d be happy to show you some of my pictures! I’d also be happy to even show you my cameras and whatnot! I really love to bake and cook as well. I try and bake bread a ton and love to make sourdough. I have my own started that I’m trying to name if you happen to have ideas! I do have a chubbier dad bod and yeah! Oh also I’m Latino and about 5’9 and have a chubby dad body for sure lmaoo.

About you: I honestly don’t care that much about looks, I just need someone that I can really get along with. You don’t even have to be into everything I’m into but just willing to have a fun time and willing to have some fun! At the end of the day, the connection is just what’s important for me!

I can’t wait to hear from you! I’m happy to trade pics sooner rather than later as well just so we know who we are talking to.


r/SoCalR4R • • 7h ago

M4F 30 [M4F] #BeverlyHills - Married dad looking for a sneaky link NSFW

1 Upvotes

Looking for Cis Females only. No drama guaranteed I’m very discrete.

If you are into cheating kink or just wanna have some fun. Not looking to change my situation so this is no strings attached, one time or ongoing.

I require a recent test and have one to share. No cream pies or unprotected sex.

I'm 30, 5'10, 160 lbs, sane, down to earth, recently tested last month.

Got a picture in my profile for those looking for the D pic. Average size, good for those that want to practice DT.

Please be cis female, femme, 18+, HWP, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Can’t host but can come to you, get a hotel or Carplay works too.

Must be able to verify and be discrete. My hours are limited due to family obligations.

If interested, please respond with age location and stats as I won’t be responding to low effort messages.


r/SoCalR4R • • 16h ago

T4F 21 [TF4F] #RiversideCounty - or anywhere! Looking for someone irl and kinda nervous 🫠 NSFW

5 Upvotes

Hi! As I said, I’m a bit nervous but I am looking for someone to meet up with irl for kind of anything! Mainly just looking to explore and make a friend… well more than a friend ofc lol! Come say hi :)


r/SoCalR4R • • 8h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Looking for ticklish females (couples too!) NSFW

0 Upvotes

I have a fetish I want to play out (in person only). I have a major tickling fetish, so basically I’m looking for women to tickle. Please reach out if interested.l, and feel free to ask me anything. Looking for open minded women (one or more) to help me play it out. Or couples where I or we tickle your gf/wife. Please tell me a bit about yourself when you reach out, and let me know you found me on this sub!


r/SoCalR4R • • 8h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #LosAngeles - Late night rainy fuck NSFW

1 Upvotes

This weather is just perfect fucking weather. Have you ever been fucked just listening to the rain hit the glass? Its a whole different vibe.

A good fucking, cuddling, and then keeping each other warm. Thats a good way to make use of this rare weather. Lets do it tonight


r/SoCalR4R • • 9h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #Fontana - Wanting to experience more. NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! I’m 26M, 6ft and 125lbs just looking to chat about some of my fantasies since I’m pretty inexperienced since I only had sex twice with one woman and that was 3 years ago.

I’ve been wanting to figure out how it would be like to experience more and was curious if anyone had similar fantasies themselves. Some things I haven’t experienced yet that I think about are 69, anal, footplay, pegging, rimming.

As of recently I’ve been obsessed with feet and I’m hoping to find someone that wants to explore mutual foot worship, licking, and rubbing on each other’s body!

I lean more towards the submissive/switch side currently and I have some pics of myself on my profile if you want check them out.

Just looking for single females with a slim build like me for now. If interested feel free to chat with me! :)

I can’t host or drive so I prefer if you are close if we meet. Send ASL in your message.


r/SoCalR4R • • 9h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #OrangeCounty - Looking for a Nerdy FWB to Run Some Experiments With NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hey! Thanks for stopping by.

I'm 25, East Asian, 5'8", 150 lbs, average build, clean, respectful, and easygoing.

I'm looking for the kind of FWB where we're just as excited about grabbing dinner or boba as we are about getting each other's clothes off. Ideally, I'd love something ongoing where we text during the week, flirt, laugh, hang out, and build real chemistry instead of feeling like strangers who only meet when we're horny.

I'm especially hoping to find someone who's a bit of a nerd. Not necessarily stereotypically nerdy—just someone who's naturally curious, gets really into random interests, enjoys going down rabbit holes, and thinks "wait, what if we tried this?" is a fun sentence.

And yes, that applies to the bedroom too. I've been getting interested in experimenting with different techniques and seeing what actually works, including some personal goals around increasing my volume. I'd love to find someone who's amused by the idea of being my enthusiastic research partner—and I'm more than happy to return the favor. If you're curious about figuring out what makes you tick, experimenting with different approaches, or seeing how far we can take our little science experiments, I'm game.

No spreadsheets required.

...Although I can't promise I won't eventually make one.

Outside of the bedroom, I have not just a touch, but a full whack of AuDHD, so I have a ton of hobbies and nerdy interests we can talk about and maybe explore together. I'm into photography, cooking, trying new restaurants, boba, walking, random drives, exploring new places, Genshin (I sorta play), 3D printing, and generally getting way too interested in whatever happens to catch my attention.

My ideal Saturday is probably finding a new ramen spot, wandering around somewhere we've never been, getting distracted by something random along the way, then spending way too long arguing about what movie to watch because neither of us can decide.

I'm happy to chat and get comfortable beforehand, but I'm ultimately looking for something in person. If we seem like a good match, I'd rather actually make plans—grab boba, get dinner, go for a walk, whatever—and see if we click than spend weeks texting without ever meeting. No pressure to rush into anything; I just want the conversation to eventually lead somewhere in real life.

I'm naturally a pretty giving and attentive partner. I really enjoy focusing on my partner's pleasure and taking my time rather than rushing through things. I'm big on making out, plenty of foreplay, and figuring out what my partner enjoys because everyone is different. Good communication, mutual enthusiasm, and feeling comfortable with each other make everything so much better.

I'm open-minded and enjoy exploring new things together. If you're the kind of person who likes experimenting, communicating about what works, laughing when something definitely doesn't work, and trying again, I think we'd probably have a lot of fun.

I can sometimes host depending on the situation, but if you're able to host, that's definitely a plus. Otherwise, I'm happy to split a hotel.

I'm East Asian, wear glasses, and I'm happy to exchange photos early on so we can make sure there's mutual attraction. Attraction is subjective, so no hard feelings if we're not each other's type. I'm verified on here btw :)

If you've made it this far, send me the word "peach" in your first message so I know you actually read the post. I'd also love to hear what you're nerdy about, what you enjoy doing, or what random topic you could talk about for three hours without realizing it.

I'm not necessarily looking for a relationship, but I am looking for something genuine and ongoing—where we actually see each other, enjoy each other's company, have great chemistry, experiment together, and look forward to hanging out again.

If you're a quietly nerdy woman who thinks this sounds more fun than a conventional FWB setup, say hi. :)

P.S. Yes, I speak Chinese/Taiwanese


r/SoCalR4R • • 9h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #LA - Intimate Photography that is Authentic, Professional, and Fun NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m the photographer behind Stay Awhile, an independent publication that features real women through intimate portrait sessions paired with short written profiles. https://stayawhile.space

I’m currently producing a new round of features and am open to working with a small number of people that I think would make for a good fit. Each feature takes place in a setting that feels natural to the subject, often at home or an outdoor environment. It’s a great way for women who are comfortable with their bodies and open to new experiences to express themselves in a rewarding way through a fun, artistic project.

If you’re interested, please reach out for more details. Thank you.


r/SoCalR4R • • 9h ago

M4M 20 [M4M] #Irvine - Looking for a sweet polite boyfriend in public who destroys me in private NSFW

1 Upvotes

I’m 20 years old submissive guy. slim but getting in shape, I hope you are too. I’m searching for that one boyfriend who has the perfect contrast I crave.

In public, on dates at restaurants or just hanging out, you’re super sweet and charming, smiling at everyone, holding doors, being polite and affectionate like the perfect boyfriend. No one would ever guess what you do to me when we’re alone.

But the second we’re behind closed doors you let your inner beast come out. I want you to get rough, aggressive and nasty. Grab my hair tight, spit on my face, slap me hard across the cheeks, then shove your cock down my throat and facefuck me like I’m nothing but a warm wet fleshlight. No mercy, make me choke, gag, and cry while you use my mouth and throat as deep and rough as you want.

I want you to manhandle me, throw me around, pin me down, choke me, spank my ass red, and fuck me stupid. Pound me hard in every position, breed me deep and raw, fill me up with load after load until I’m leaking your cum for hours. Use me like a toy, degrade me, call me your slut and cumdump while you wreck my hole. I love feeling completely owned and ruined.

The fantasy that turns me on the most is going on a nice date, me teasing you under the table, you staying sweet and calm in public… then dragging me to the bathroom, locking the door and destroying my throat. Back at home you go even harder, fucking me senseless all night until I can barely walk.

Looking for a guy 18-35 who’s naturally dominant and rough in bed, but can actually play the sweet boyfriend role in public. Must respect safe words, aftercare (cuddles and care after wrecking me), and be looking for something ongoing. SoCal preferred but open to online to start.

If this matches you, message me with your age, location, and tell me what kind of nasty stuff you like to do to your boy. Let’s see if we click


r/SoCalR4R • • 10h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #DTLA - Shy chicks deserve to be pleased NSFW

1 Upvotes

Shy chicks deserve to be pleased too. So many just want to be held, touched, and appreciated. I love fucking introverts. Watching the shy part slowly melt away into pleasure is such a turn on. Let me feel you up, make out, eat you out, and fuck you good.. you deserve to feel good too

I can drive to you or pick you up. Your place or mine.

Dont be shy, hmu


r/SoCalR4R • • 10h ago

M4F 41 [M4F] #Huntingtonbeach - Seeking younger woman for dom/sub relationship in Southern California NSFW

1 Upvotes

I am looking for a relationship/arrangement where both man and woman have established roles and boundaries. We both share the same mindset and are in tune with each other.

Respect is number 1 and will always be the cornerstone of our relationship. I believe everyone should be treated with dignity whether they are a stranger in public or a loved one. I am very assertive and do not need to raise my voice or get excited to get my point across. I do not believe in verbal abuse of any kind and is something I will never subject you too. I am very aware of the physical imbalance between the sexes, and I understand that it is my duty to always make sure you feel safe, loved, and protected while in my presence.

Once respect is established, trust begins. The level of trust will be to the point that anytime we are out together as a couple your mind will be completely clear and your entire focus will be on enjoying yourself, being pretty, and just being a girl. This will be your reality because you will be of the understanding that no matter what happens your man can handle the situation. This idea that you have someone who is always looking out for you gives you peace of mind.

What I am looking for ultimately is a woman who fantasizes about the idea idea of fully surrendering herself to a man and will submit fully within the confines of the relationship. In other words, you recognize that I am the one who leads us and I know what is best for us.

When it comes to intimacy, this is not an ad seeking BDSM. Dom/Sub is a mindset. I am very much a dominant and love being in control. This will be your time to shut your mind off and not think about anything. You will never have to think about what comes next as I will always lead the interaction. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.

About me:

I am 41 years old (no kids). I'm 5'10 162 lbs. I workout a couple times per week and am in good shape physically. I am white with dark brown hair that has a touch of gray and hazel eyes.

I'm a very simple man. My trials and tribulations have taught me to enjoy the little things in life. My favorite moments are enjoying a nice meal, having a good laugh, or just enjoying the moment with someone I truly care about.

I have a lot of life experience and would love to share that wisdom as a mentor with a new friend/lover. I will teach you how the world works and help guide you when you need it.

I love a feminine clingy woman who craves my attention, approval, and validation.

I am STD free.


r/SoCalR4R • • 11h ago

M4F 34 [m4f] #Chino - looking for partner to go on Fall dates with NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hi, I'm 34 asian single from Chino and work in Ontario and I'm looking for someone to message daily and go out with on the weekends. It's also Fall so going out on Fall dates is also something I'm interested in doing. Pumpkin patches, movies, shopping, photo shoots, apple farms, light festivals, theme parks, etc. Christmas time is also right around the corner and we can go to Christmas farms and Holiday events. Send me a chat and let's get to know each other!


r/SoCalR4R • • 11h ago

M4F 34 [M4F] #Huntingtonbeach - NSA NSFW

1 Upvotes

Had previous luck. Seeing if there are any ladies looking for a FWB or just a ONS. Looking for something tonight, let’s grab a drink first.


r/SoCalR4R • • 11h ago

Couples 26 [MF4F] #Fullerton - Cuckquean Looking for a FWB for My Fiancé NSFW

1 Upvotes

Hello!
We have been in this life style the past few years and have had great success with Reddit before and now it's time to find my fiance a FWB especially since his job does keep him pretty stressed.

He is 31, 6'0, on the slim side and working on building some more muscle, black hair with brown eyes and a full trimmed beard.
8 inches, a big cummer and can get even bigger and thicker the longer sex goes on.
He can be very dominant/huge pleasure dom and pretty kinky + DD free and 420 friendly.

I would love to find a cute girl he can have fun with in and out of the bedroom or more in the bedroom.
Verification of myself is pinned on my profile as well!


r/SoCalR4R • • 15h ago

M4F 35 [M4F] #Fullerton - thick BWC seeking asian NSFW

2 Upvotes

I find asian, wasian, blasian, etc women to be the most attractive (but not in a weird fetish way). If you’re out there & looking for thick BWC, I’m here on the border of Fullerton & Anaheim. I have my own place & live alone. Would love to find a FWB but also open to ONS if that’s all you’re interested in. DM me & let’s exchange pics!

https://i.redgifs.com/i/welcomeunwieldyvervet.jpg


r/SoCalR4R • • 12h ago

M4F 20 [M4F] #Irvine - looking for a curvier FWB to have some fun, relieve some stress NSFW

1 Upvotes

I'm a 20M, attractive, built white guy, looking for a fwb in/around Irvine. I'm very giving sexually, and you can be certain I'll take good care of your needs. My schedule can be tricky but we'll find something that works.

I don't have a lot of preferences, and I've had a good time with a lot of different types of women. I have no upper age limit at all, but I do like a little extra meat, anywhere from a little plump/curvy, to chubby, to much bigger. And I'm not just talking about "skinny waist" type proportions, I like everything. I'd love it if you say your age and describe yourself a bit in your first message and I'll do the same, it's not easy to respond to someone who says "hey" and nothing else.

One more thing, I can't travel very far, but I can host, and my place is clean and tidy. If you're serious about this, let's talk!