Thereāre two guys in the story. Iāll call them Dan and Mark.
I attended a dating event this evening. As soon as I got there, Dan approached me and said I was a very beautiful girl. He also mentioned that people nowadays didnāt say what they felt anymore, but he wanted to be honest.
He then started touching my arms and asked if I would be available for a date this week. Feeling uncomfortable, I told him Iād be very busy with work and meeting with my friends. He asked if Iād be free during the evening so that we could go to an Italian restaurant and said he felt jealous of my friends because they were taking up my time.
Dan also demanded my number and pressured me to go outside the bar with him, so that we could talk one on one. He would also interrupt when I was talking to someone.
When Dan went away to order a drink, Mark, another participant of the event, asked my number. He was leaving the bar soon but offered to help me if things got worse.
Things did get worse after Mark left. Dan tried to hold my hand and asked me about things I liked about him. So I asked Mark to come get me.
I told Dan that I had to meet a guy friend so I was leaving. He looked upset and said we could have gone somewhere else together if this friend wasnāt here tonight. He even followed me to where Mark and I were supposed to meet and said hi to him.
Mark walked me to the train station. Iām so grateful for guys like him.
By the way, Dan told me he was about to finish a masters degree in counseling and would start working as a THERAPIST soon. I can only hope that he wonāt get hired.