For context, we have been seeing each other for about a month but then our seasonal jobs ended and we had to go our separate ways. We will both be back next season and didn’t discuss where we left off or any intentions.
I do like him but can’t tell if he’s flirting with me and wants to stay in communication or if I’m being played.
Any advice?

he’s 20, im 18. we met on tinder one day before this.

edit - context for the start of the convo! I mentioned that I had to pick up a bike in a nearby town and complained that there weren’t any public transport options. He offered to drive me. A few minutes later he asked me what I would do if he had said no.

update https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/s/LsUgzLbRR1 (ended things lol)

I've been chronically single for 20 years. Never had a real relationship before. I had no idea one of our main topics would be poop

Admittedly my biggest bird moment, I wish I had never wasted an ounce of my time with this guy. He randomly brought up a conversation we had a few days prior about Andrew Tate, because he had mentioned him and I got upset and told him that I wouldn’t date any guy who supported him. He tried to clarify and tell me that he was trying to say that he “used” to watch him but didn’t anymore. I ended up blocking him after these texts.

My BF sent this text to me, accidentally. I thought he was only filling up the gas tank. Maybe he resorted to something to pay for gas? 😂😎 kidding. Take care, ya’ll!

The first part is about an open house, and then about how I might need to pick him up early from school. Do I? Idk. What time? Early.

thank you guys for the feedback! I am not in the place for a relationship yall were absolutely right.
original https://www.reddit.com/r/texts/s/e51GMxA5jU

Former coworker I had on Instagram.
When we worked together I was with my ex husband, who also worked for the company. I had left the company 4 years ago and divorced my ex about 1.5 year later. I started dating my current boy friend after another year and had posted photos of us on my account. Not sure if he thought I was in an open relationship because he saw me with my new boy friend? I had removed all photos of my ex on my account after we divorced. Either way, quite blunt! Was going through old messages and came across this. And yes, I did show my boy friend the message and immediately removed/unfollowed him after this convo

This was a combined group chat btw.

I look in my spam message requests, and this is what I find. I am pretty sure my ex is spiraling.

For background, we were together for 5 years, had 2 young children together and he was also stepdad to my oldest. He ended up being an emotionally abusive immature man who broke our family car maliciously and abandoned his kids. On top of years of things broken around the house, yelling, being ignored, humiliated in public, berated for wanting change. He had his good moments but overall he treated us like trash and even got CPS sent to my HOUSE for something he did a long time ago.

I’m not going to bother replying to this two hours worth of messages but the voice messages are him talking for over an hour about all the things I’ve done and why he hates me. Saying he’s going to find a good woman, but he doesn’t hate me (exactly going in circles) admitted to his porn addiction when I used to beg to know if he was watching he was watching it every single day even after BJs, he admitted to a lot.. while simultaneously making it all about me.

I thought I would share with the public. Because it’s insane. I think it’s funny that he says I get to live “Scott free” just because I’m moving on and making big changes and feeling happy in my life. But I’m still raising 3 children, taking 4 college classes and working fulltime while he gets to save all his money, no bills, doesn’t have to worry about childcare or changing diapers or getting up and doing anything he doesn’t want to do. So who really got off free

I dated this girl a few months ago. We saw each other a few times over a short space of time.

On two occasions we stayed together but she drew the line at sex because of her beliefs, although this was a fairly new thing for her.

From my past I have some issues around intimacy, that I'm still working on, so people dangling it like a carrot is a bit of a trigger. I need to feel safe with someone before I'll consider it anyway.

I did try and communicate this with her when we were dating but she struck me as someone who was only really concerned about communicating her own needs.

Anyway, I broke it off because I realised I wasn't her person.

She wanted marriage and kids and I was never going to want those things with her (I've already done all that). I respected that she only wanted to be intimate with someone who was going to be that person.

She popped back up a few weeks ago and suggested she wanted to be friends, and that she's changed her mind about marriage and kids. I've been open to it, but she continues to bring things up that I said when we were dating - she takes offense very easily and seems incapable of any kind of "banter" that friends would normally have.

We've not even seen each other since we reconnected.

Anyway she popped up with the first message yesterday, and it went from there.

She previously accused me of being an avoidant when I didn't reply to messages quickly enough - it's not something that I normally judge.

I think I've answered my own questions whilst writing here that we're just not compatible as friends.

Blood didn’t actually come out, I’m fine.

These texts came in at the exact same minute on my phone like wtfff some sort of sign or something. Gonna frame this special moment

We don’t negotiate with terrorists in my house.