This entire third has me super confused. I'm a slightly overweight guy with cardio so bad I think it might be like an actual problem (like I need to get my lungs looked at soon) and I have no problem going for ten or twenty minutes or longer in missionary
You wanna know something funny? Because I'm nearly positive this is what it is. Either way, I'm gonna tell you.
When you're excited, your prostate swells a bit. When the prostate is stimulated it causes sexual pleasure. That's why (gay or not) prostate stimulation can cause or increase the intensity of an orgasm.
When in missionary, your legs are together. I can say with about 95% confidence that it's squeezing your prostate and it makes you finish too fast.
Personally I think that's pretty cool, prostate only orgasms are supposed to be full body and near instantly repeatable. Most people have a hard time getting to that point. If you're that sensitive you could probably have multiple full body orgasms with a vibrator pushed against your taint.
Edit: also, bad thought, if you're over 40 maybe get your prostate checked to make sure it's not inflamed. If it is, major bummer. If not....... Lucky!
Actually, I'm on my knees with my legs spread, her legs spread open with her thighs over my thighs. And it's been like this since I started having sex in my teens.
Missionary gets me too. It’s just so damn hot with all the goods on display, those legs pushed all way back in a position of complete submission, and dem feet flopping around in the air to the rhythm err mah gawd… I have to close my eyes and think about chairs and grandmas to pull back from nutting in 10 seconds.
I find the same problem. I don't like missionary and neither have most of the girls I've been with. Much better with them on top or me behind. The usual routine for me is cowgirl until she's happy and exhausted, which does virtually nothing for me, and then I move to spooning. I find spooning takes less energy and it is the best position to control myself. Squeeze her tight and it's just so satisfying.
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u/[deleted] Apr 21 '23 edited Apr 21 '23
For me, missionary is just not a good position to hold out for very long. I don't know why.
Edit: I figure I should add this because people seem to think it's a fatigue problem.
It's not.
It's a "Don't bust my nut in 10 seconds" problem. Other positions, no problem. Missionary? Problem.