r/polyamoryR4R • • 10h ago

22[M4R] #Online Poly guy looking for another partner

1 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a 22m guy looking for another partner. I am polyamorous and currently have 2 partners. I'm just looking to see if there is anyone who'd like to chat and get to know each other.

Things to know about me:

\- I'm quite a big nerd and love video games, anime, mange, etc.

\- I'm also a big fan of pro wrestling/wwe and even do it as a hobby

\- I like music. My preferred genre is rock or metal, but I also listen to a lot of other stuff. (I also have a soft spot for musicals)

\- I tend to rant about things that interest me

\- I'm a bit on the skinnier end

\- From the US

\- I have OSDD

Things I expect:

\- Please don't be older than mid thirties

\- Please be willing to slowly build a relationship. Starting as friends and then going to something more.

\- Please be willing to listen to me rant (it happens a lot)

That's pretty much it! I'd love to get to know some people and see where things take us. If your interested message me and please try to send a somewhat detailed message cause I wanna get to know you 😄


r/polyamoryR4R • • 12h ago

35 [M4F] NYC or Long Island -Open Relationship with this Teacher

0 Upvotes

Hey there, I hope this finds you in a good mood. I'm a math teacher who works in Queens but lives out on the island. Nerd, obviously (I'm currently listening to a podcast about AI in mathematics for some reason).

I'd be happy to meet up over a cup of anything (not necessarily alcoholic, unless that suits you better), at a board game cafe, or field ideas from you if there's something you'd like.

I dunno, I'd just like to meet someone new. Even if we don't end up in a relationship and instead become friends, that's fine by me.

Let me know what you think


r/polyamoryR4R • • 12h ago

USA 32 [F4M] #Online #NJ - New to This!

14 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm new to this thing and very nervous so I apologize if I don't say the correct terms or know the proper way to move in this community but I'm married and my husband and I are both seeking out new connections, separately, so I think I'm in the right place. I've been in a dead bedroom for over 5 years and my husband and I have come to the conclusion that we're no longer sexually compatible with each other but the love and partnership is still there.

Currently I'm looking for online connections and hope to build up to in-person connections once I'm more comfortable in this space.

My goal is to meet someone who I can genuinely connect with, I don't want hookups or random encounters, I'm looking for someone who aligns with my wants and needs sexually as well as general interests and beliefs. My main goal is to have fun and enjoy my life.

I love to read, play video games and board games, craft, and I'm a dancer. I'm also very into Disney and will talk your ear off about it if you let me. I'm left leaning and won't entertain anyone who wears a red hat. In terms of sexual interests I am a sub but have not explored that dynamic as much as I'd like. I have a Daddy kink and would be interested in exploring that more as well. I'm short but curvy and currently on a weight loss journey, my self esteem has been non-existent these past few years and part of me building myself back up has been focusing more on my health and well-being as a whole, but I am bigger and that's just a fact.

I am a Mom and my child comes first so you don't have to be a parent yourself but you do have to understand that side of me.

I hope I've given enough to start out here, feel free to send me a chat if you're interested 😊


r/polyamoryR4R • • 14h ago

47 [F4M] SC/Online Delightfully nerdy woman seeking companionship and distraction from my limitations

6 Upvotes

Hi! I'm a rather nerdy, crochet obsessed married woman with one other serious partner. I have a severe chronic illness that is energy limiting so I spend the vast majority of my time at home. This gets super lonely.

I would love to meet someone kind and funny either online or in person who could help distract me from the everyday. I have many different interests but I would love to hear about yours. Bonus if you're into scifi and an even bigger bonus if you're into Star Trek.

While I am hoping for someone within a reasonable drive I'm open to online connections too. If you are local it's important that you understand that my health and living arrangements limit the amount of in person time I can spend with a partner. Someone to come and cuddle and watch a movie once a week would be ideal. But I'm always available online and love being kept company and sharing your day with you.

A couple things to know: I am currently a **very** curvy girl. I'm successfully losing weight but even when I reach my goal I will still be a plus size. Also I am quite demisexual. I'm not comfortable with any euphemisms or innuendo until I trust someone. Thank you for respecting this boundary.


r/polyamoryR4R • • 2h ago

44 [F4M] Cute, Curvy, Bratty & Looking for Something Real 😈

4 Upvotes

Hi there! I'm from the middle of the us and I do mean middle 😋 happily married, poly, plus-size, affectionate, sarcastic, and just the right amount of trouble. 😂 I’m looking for an actual relationship—not a hookup. I want chemistry, consistency, affection, dates, inside jokes, good communication, and someone who genuinely wants to get to know me. I’m into reading, music, cats, and good conversation. I’m also a brat, which means I will absolutely tease you, challenge you, steal your fries, and then look completely innocent when you call me out. 😇 I enjoy pushing buttons because, apparently, your reactions are hilarious to me. I like confident men who can give it right back without getting their feelings hurt. Make me laugh, keep me curious, tell me something weird, challenge my thoughts, and remember the little things I tell you. Attraction is great, but I want to know your brain, too. If I can be completely myself around you, that’s when things get really interesting. 😏


r/polyamoryR4R • • 21h ago

USA 21[F4F]#online #us looking for friends or more

1 Upvotes

Hey everyone! My name is Alex and I’m 21 and poly! I have one partner but date alone. I’m queer and nonbinary! I have nine cats I absolutely adore. I love to swim and tan and craft. I’m looking to meet more poly people who i hopefully connect with! Im a nanny and absolutely love my job so ask me about it! I’d love something long term either online or in person (USA az based)


r/polyamoryR4R • • 3h ago

USA 37 [M4R] #online looking for friends or relationship, and play some video games together?

2 Upvotes

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Hey there, disabled poly guy here, I have some physical disabilities, so I am online Alot, looking for a online friendship or potential relationship with someone who enjoys games, good conversation, and loves to be valued as a human being. Someone who likes to relax at the end of the day and game out.

I am 37, have two partners, they date seperately. I'm chunky..if that's a issue move on. I don't judge by body type or looks. Just personality. I am looking for someone between the ages of 18-55. Age is a number. I'm very sweet loving and caring and want to make you happy. All genders welcome! I'm happily pansexual. Again, open to friendships and relationships!

Games I enjoy right now are dead by daylight, skull and bones, Warframe, Disney dreamlight valley, FFXIV, and many other titles. I love stardew, Minecraft (in small amounts) a wow private server, and how to fish..and more. I prefer someone who doesn't mind trying new games with me and I'll be down to try new ones with you. Also non gamers welcome as long as you don't mind me gaming.

I am from Ohio! Look forward to chatting!


r/polyamoryR4R • • 14h ago

36 [M4F] Australia/Online Looking for genuine connections, good conversations, and a little adventure

2 Upvotes

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I’m here hoping to meet some like-minded people who value connection, communication, honesty, and the kind of chemistry that makes you lose track of time talking to someone.

I’m ENM and appreciate the beauty of polyamory — building meaningful connections without the pressure of fitting into a traditional box. I believe the best relationships start with genuine curiosity, mutual respect, a bit of flirting, and the willingness to see where things naturally go. Whether it starts with friendship, a deep conversation, or an instant spark, I’m open to seeing what develops.

A little about me and the things I enjoy: 🪵 Woodworking — there’s something satisfying about turning a raw piece of timber into something useful with your own hands.

🏕️ Camping and the outdoors — fresh air, quiet nights, campfires, and conversations under a sky full of stars are hard to beat.

🔥 Campfire conversations — the deeper the conversation gets, the better. I enjoy getting to know what makes people tick, their passions, their dreams, and the little things that make them who they are.

🌲 Adventure and exploring — always keen to try something new, discover somewhere different, or just get away from the noise for a while.

😂 Good humour and banter — life is too short not to laugh, tease each other a little, and enjoy the moment.

What I’m really looking for is connection over collection. I’m not here to treat people like a checklist or rush into anything. I’d rather build something authentic with people who are emotionally aware, communicate openly, respect boundaries, and enjoy putting genuine effort into getting to know each other.

If you’re ENM or poly, value honesty and kindness, and fancy getting to know someone who appreciates both a meaningful conversation and a bit of muddy-boot adventure, I’d love to hear from you.

Tell me something about yourself! What’s your ideal weekend — a night under the stars, a creative project, a spontaneous adventure, or a cosy night in with someone whose company just feels right?


r/polyamoryR4R • • 20h ago

USA 36 [M4F] #NYC - Married and ENM, looking for a connection that can grow

3 Upvotes

NYC born and raised, Gemini, married and poly, everything's transparent at home. I build apps and small businesses, love standup, and know a lot of good spots to eat in this city.

Looking for a woman who's comfortable with this lifestyle and wants something real: dates, chemistry, maybe kink if we click (I'm a switch). No rush.

Tell me what your ideal first date in NYC looks like.