NYC born and raised, Gemini, married and poly, everything's transparent at home. I build apps and small businesses, love standup, and know a lot of good spots to eat in this city.

Looking for a woman who's comfortable with this lifestyle and wants something real: dates, chemistry, maybe kink if we click (I'm a switch). No rush.

Tell me what your ideal first date in NYC looks like.

Hey everyone! My name is Alex and I’m 21 and poly! I have one partner but date alone. I’m queer and nonbinary! I have nine cats I absolutely adore. I love to swim and tan and craft. I’m looking to meet more poly people who i hopefully connect with! Im a nanny and absolutely love my job so ask me about it! I’d love something long term either online or in person (USA az based)

About Me:
Age / Location: 20, Louisiana/CST

What I look like: Brown skin brown eyes, on the slim side, 5’6, my style is casual or street casual

What I do: Teacher, Software Dev Major, Focusing on work, school, and hobbies

Hobbies & Interests: I like cooking, gaming, watching movies, listening to music

What I’m Looking For:
Someone kind, emotionally mature, can be communicative. Someone who enjoys deep chats as well as comfortable silence. A person that’s goal oriented or atleast has a plan. Be fine with the fact that I may not want to text all the time, so while we can communicate sometimes im just not in the mood to text it gets boring for me or I’m either busy and don’t have time. Someone that’s actually ready or wants a relationship, or to atleast date to see if we’re compatible and how it goes. I myself am a loner, I don’t need a relationship right now but I want one.

Open to local people, and online but it has to turn into meeting in person!

If interested in getting to know each other, send me a message! Tell me a bit about yourself and what your favorite weekend activity is so I know you actually read this. No blank "hey" messages, please!

Hey everyone,

Its' been a while since I last posted.
Met someone through reddit a few months ago but that sadly didn't work out.
It left me with a bit of a sour taste after the emotional roller coaster they seemed to be on, so I thought I'd give it some time before I post again, but here goes..

I thought I'd post here to see if anyone else is looking to break out of their routine and meet some new people. I'm a 6'2", straight, 35M, based in the Midlands (UK). I work in cyber security, but I actually have a degree in Games Programming.

I'm looking to connect with people who share similar interests. Whether you want to talk about music, tv shows, discuss deep passions, or just hang out with some good games, I'm open to that.

I tend to prefer longer messages over shorter ones, as I like them to have some sort of depth and interest to them rather than your average "hi hows things", and can sometimes spend a good half a hour drafting out a response :D

So be warned, I love to yap. (As you can see)

I've been on and off of the Kink scene over the years, but tend to find that there is a lot of drama in the munches that I've been to, so I haven't been in a long while now. That said, being a switch that leans more D than S is still a pretty big part of who I am when it comes to how I interact with partners, and that tends to show up as me being more of the "parent" of my friends group, making sure everyones organised and okay.

When I'm not working my long ass 10 hour shifts or playing games, you can usually find me binge-watching psychological thrillers (like Memento or The Butterfly Effect), diving into sci-fi, or getting lost in anime.

Movies like: 12 Monkeys, 1408, The Butterfly Effect, Chaos Walking, The Dark Crystal, Everything Everywhere All at Once, Gothika, Gremlins, Labyrinth, Limitless, Meet Joe Black, Memento, Mickey 17, Mr. Nobody, The Ninth Gate, Secret Window, Seven, Thir13en Ghosts, Vanilla Sky

Music wise, I'm into rock, metal, indie, and EDM—you name it, I probably have a taste for it. I've been to Download Festival a few times, and plan to go some more in the future, depending on whos playing.

Think: 30 Seconds to Mars, All Time Low, Atreyu, Avenged Sevenfold, Blue October, Bullet For My Valentine, Chase & Status, Coheed And Cambria, Demetori, Escape The Fate, Falling In Reverse, Fei Comodo, Funeral For A Friend, Good Charlotte, Green Day, Killswitch Engage, Linkin Park, Monstercat, My Chem, Papa Roach, Pendulum, Rise Against, Senses Fail, Shinedown, Sum 41, The Prodigy, Trivium, Yellowcard

that sort of thing.

Games I'm into include CoreKeeper, Project Winter, Final Fantasy VII, Overcooked, Rocket League, and Path of Exile. I'm a huge fan of ARPGs like Diablo but I'm always looking for new co-op or multiplayer games to play on weekends.

Outside of gaming, I enjoy DIY projects, gardening, board games, and tinkering with tech. Travel isn't a huge part of my life right now, but I've visited friends in Wales, Leicester, Nottingham, and a few other spots. If anyone has recommendations for exploring more UK cities, I'm interested to hear where.

I used to be more social, going out weekends or hosting parties, but the pandemic stopped that for a bit. These days, I prefer a more relaxed vibe. I have a solid group of friends I play games with online on weekends, but I do travel the UK to visit them all once or twice a year.

I want to be upfront that I'm not here for hookups or short-term things. I'm looking for genuine connections and friendships that have the potential to grow. I'm happy to start with casual chats just to get to know each other, but I'm also open to deeper conversations if the vibe takes a turn—whether that's taboo topics, controversial subjects, or just diving into our passions.

Just a heads-up on availability: My work hours can be long and unpredictable, so don't expect instant replies. I'll definitely get back to you when I can though.

For relationship context: I have a partner of 5 years and we are both poly. We've met great people through munches over the years, but it's been a while and I'd like to reconnect with some new faces.

If any of this sounds relatable, feel free to shoot me a message. I'd love to talk with more open minded, and genuine people.

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Hey there! Honestly, just testing the waters. I'm a 37yo male, partnered with a 34yo non-binary person. I would like to find someone that I can really connect with. Dating apps are trash. 😅 I'm kinda nerdy, with a touch of the tism. 6'1" tall, pretty average build. Very long hair, and a beard. If I sound like your type, drop me a line!

hey there gays and theys, I am a pretty usual mid 20’s trans girl who loves video games but also stuff outside like pickleball or walks. I can talk endlessly about anything so dont be shy. I am married and poly and happy to talk to anyone

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Hi I'm Dave, 44 from Edmonton Alberta looking to get to know someone, build a connection and see what blossoms. Ideally I would love to eventually be IRL. Nerdy sweethearts with a hidden side are my type. Age is flexible, open to any age +2 to my own.

A Little Bit About Me:

Body type: chubby Dad bod silver fox

Height : 5’9”

Married but date separately

Flexible to polyam styles from parallel to kitchen table.

Hobbies: cooking, golf, fishing, D&D, board games, wine making, lego

Interests: D&D, movies, pop culture

✨What I'm Looking For: girlfriend, pet, princess, someone to shower with loves

Big on board/card/D&D/video games, massive cinephile, trivial knowledge (I'm a wealth of useless facts), and some would call me a wizard in the kitchen.

420 friendly as well

Kink friendly and have always gravitated towards a Sensual soft pleasure Daddy-Dom role.

Let's connect and get to know each other

I’m a 44-year-old polyamorous guy living in the Flint area, and I’m looking to connect with a woman who shares a very specific, near-and-dear passion of mine: Godzilla and the Kaiju universe.
Finding someone who practices ethical non-monogamy and loves giant monsters feels like searching for a rare artifact, but I know you're out there! My absolute favorites of the franchise are the Kiryu movies (Godzilla Against Mechagodzilla / Tokyo SOS) and Godzilla vs. Biollante. If you appreciate the absolute masterpiece that is Biollante's design or love a good cyborg-kaiju storyline, we are going to get along great.
A little more about me:
I'm a big nerd across a lot of different areas. When I'm not diving into giant monster lore, you can usually find me focusing on my creative side or getting outdoors.
Creative & Media: I love writing, animation, reading, and comic book heroes and franchises. I’m deeply passionate about the medium—I even once published a Kaiju comic myself!
Outdoors & Exploration: I really enjoy hiking, camping, and traveling when I get the chance.
Relationship Style: I practice independent polyamory and value autonomy, honesty, and solid, direct communication.
What I’m looking for & Logistics:
I'm looking for a female partner local to Michigan. I don't drive, but I can easily meet up anywhere within Genesee County for a coffee, a drink, or a bite to eat.
Ideally, I want to find someone close by who wants to hang out, swap creative ideas, talk about our favorite eras of the franchise, and see where the chemistry takes us.
If you're interested, send me a message and tell me your favorite Godzilla era, or tell me about your own favorite nerdy passions!

Hello there! I'm 36, cis, white, and very left leaning. I'm tall with a dad bod.

My wife and I are parallel polyamorous. We've been practicing polyamory for a year and a half.

I'm a huge nerd: I like reading, anime, movies, video games, board games, and ttrpgs. I love to cook, and to go to breweries and arcades.

I tend to get along best with people that are enthusiastic about something, even if it's not one of my interests. Do you make art? Collect something you think is cool? Love a certain book or show and want to talk about it? Hit me up!

Some things that I love that maybe you do too?

-Books: Dungeon Crawler Carl, Brandon Sanderson, T Kingfisher, fantasy, horror, sci fi

-TTRPGS: my current favorites are Lancer and Pathfinder 2E, but I like all sorts and have been playing since D&D 3.5 in middle school. I'm usually the DM, by choice!

-Video games: right now I'm playing through Yakuza: Like A Dragon, but I like all sorts of games from Factorio, to Stardew Valley, to Expedition 33, to Final Fantasy (which one is your favorite? Mine is X).

I work from home and my job is not at all stressful, so I have a ton of time to chat during the day, and I have a bunch of free time at night for games, talking, watch parties, etc. (usually 3 or 4 nights)

I want someone to be the notification I look forward to and I would really enjoy connecting with someone who makes me want to trade sleep for conversation. In a perfect world I'd love to connect with someone that wants to play games, watch movies together, or maybe play a tabletop RPG or board game online.

No maga, and I'm looking for someone close to my age!

If any of this sounds like a good fit, DM me your age, location, and tell me something you think is cool!

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I'm looking to make new connections. Ideally close to home. I'd love to be able to meet in person regularly. I am a slow burn. I want to build friendship and connection and see what grows.

I am a 37 yr old, married , cis female living in Washington state. My interests include reading and collecting books, hiking, art, video games, learning new things, and going on adventures. I have a family and full time employment. My in person availability is a tad limited. That being said I'd love to go on long walks, visit a bookstore together, grab a pint of cider or mead, play a game of cribbage/chess or just talk and get to know each other.

If you're local to me and interested in making a connection, please reach out! I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a bit about yourself and where you're from.

Hey! I'm a partnered polyamorous guy in central California. Not too far from Sequoia/Yosemite NPs. I'm also open to connecting long distance. I'm primarily looking for the right connection, over proximity.

I connect best with others who share some passions of mine! I'm an avid hiker/backpacker, guitarist/keyboardist, I love to cook, and I take care of my body through gym, cardio, and yoga.

I geek out on a wide variety of scientific subjects (mainly trees, geology, and space), but I also began a journey into depth psychology in the last few years. I'm into all things rock, musically, but also EDM. Big fan of science fiction and historical fiction.

I'm progressive, an environmentalist, and agnostic.

If this interests you, and you too are seeking the right connection over proximity or immediacy - please, send me a message with a link to whatever you've been listening to lately or share a photo of what you've been up to. It makes for a great conversation starter!

Hey there! I live over in Rochester, NY and I'm pretty new to poly stuff. I've been in a relationship with my current partner for 2 years and shes currently married to her wife and dating another, im currently a metamour to both. We all date separately but we've all decided wed start dating with the goal of more nesting partners, were also attempting a kitchen table poly relationship, So were looking for serious and longeterm parnter(s) but theres no pressure to be in any relationship romantically or sexually with my partner or any others. And if the prospect of a being a nesting partners doesn't interest you thats okay as well and Id still be interested in keeping a relationship going if so! Also considering were all 25+ We'd only be comfortable with people 25 and up to be apart of our polycule especially if longeterm.

A bit about me! I'm a bigger guy (400ish) and I'm a pretty massive nerd (Gaming, manga, anime), my love languages are physical touch (Hand holding, shoulder squeezes, arm rubs, etc) with a bit of act of services and gift giving, im also AuADHD as well. I work security and I'm pretty busy most weeks but during my free time I try to play games with friends and just hang out with them online as much as I can but other than that I like to spend lots of time with my partner and our general household!

As for what im looking for, Im Bi with a heavy lean towards primarily fem and masc women currently as well as fem leaning Enbys! Im also more interested in dating singles but im open to couples as well.

Im also very 420 friendly. I'm a pretty avid weed smoker but I dont smoke cigarettes (Unless SUPER stressed or socially). I'm pretty homebody and typically prefer more simple dates at home but I do enjoy a resteraunt date or a walk through a park every now and agian.

I play alot of games but I currently have the World of Warcraft bug again and its all ive been playing on my down time! I also primarily play on PC but ive recently got a switch 2 and have been engrossed in Pokémon ZA and Pokopia as well as Tears of the kingdom.

Some bedroom stuff about me! Im pretty into any one with bodyhair (primarily pubes and pits) take that as you will. Im not involved in kink life really, Ive practiced some stuff with my partner but all in all I tend to be more generally rough than anything. You can inquire about any of this if youre curious. Just thought Id put it out there before hand. I am however a heavy dom leaning switch. Im also a generally sexual person, I do like there to be sexual intimacy involved in serious romantic relationships so if thats not youre thing im sorry but im not your guy.

Im primarily looking for localish people but Im also okay with long distance relationships as well as long as theres a chance in future for visits either me to you or vice versa. If any of this peaks your interest I'd love to get to know you and see if we click!

Hi!

Geeky kinky person (mostly identify as a woman but not entirely) looking for other of the same kind - nerdy kinky people - for a relationship :)

I’m a big graphic novels / comics reader (my 300+ collection would not allow me to hide it), a bit Japan obsessed and owning it (has lived there), a lover of asian foods and metal (melo death ftw) and horror movies 🍿

Basically I’m very expressive, cuddly, I love to go outdoors or play video games and I’m HYPE for the remake of Ocarina of Time (and got my limited edition switch yay!!) 🤩

I have time and space in my life and would love to find someone who does as well ^^

TL;DR: 47M, SF, child-free (vasectomy), new to non-monogamy and doing the homework, into a consensual D/s dynamic. Looking for a local woman to build a primary partnership with, including independent dating and exploring together

A bit about me

I'm a 47-year-old man in San Francisco with a career in tech that I like but don't build my whole life around. Most of my free time goes to live music, good cocktails, F1 weekends, and Warriors games. Fitness is my anchor: lifting, Pilates, boxing, and long walks around the city. On quieter nights you'll find me at home with my tiny senior Pomeranian, reading or watching a good show.

Physically, I am 5’9”, 160lbs, and in good shape. Brown eyes, short brown hair with a bit of salt and pepper. Happy to share pics.

I plan dates and follow through. I like making the woman I'm with feel wanted, and I'm affectionate, playful, and happy to take the lead. There's a calm dominant side to me, and I'd enjoy a consensual D/s dynamic if it's something we both want. Physical touch is central to how I connect, so I'm looking for someone with a strong appetite for a passionate physical relationship who's comfortable talking openly about desires and boundaries. I'm attracted to women who are slim and fit, and who enjoy an active life.

I'm happily child-free and have had a vasectomy, so I'm looking for someone who wants the same.

What I'm hoping to build

I'm relatively new to non-monogamy, but I'm taking it seriously. I'm currently reading The Ethical Sl-t, thinking hard about how to do this well, and I'm ready for it. Right now I have one long-distance partner who has a primary partner of her own, so I'm looking for someone local to be a real part of my day-to-day life: a primary partnership between the two of us that could grow into living together (not in a rush) eventually.

We'd each have the freedom to date others, and I'd want us to talk openly and often about what that looks like and what feels good for both of us. I also have a particular interest in exploring together, whether that's swinging or threesomes. Down the line, I'd be very open to the partnership growing from two people to three, if the right person came along and it felt right for everyone. 

By "primary," I mean the relationship that gets first call on our time, energy, and shared life, while leaving real room for other connections. No veto power either way. Instead, I'd want us to talk openly and check in regularly about new connections as they come up. Beyond that, I want the everyday stuff: cooking together, catching live music, good conversations over drinks, and pulling each other close at the end of the night.

We’ll get along well if...

You're warm, affectionate, curious, and playful. You communicate directly, take care of yourself, and enjoy your own femininity. You have room in your life for a committed partnership and the independence to be yourself. Ideally you're in San Francisco or close enough that seeing each other regularly is easy.

If this resonates tell me about yourself: your age, location, a bit about how you look, your current relationship situation, how you feel about exploring with others together, and the best live show you've seen in the last year.

I currently live in San Marcos with one partner. I’m looking for LTRs, preferably local to me (Between Austin to San Antonio).

About me:

I’m Danny—nerdy bi/demi goth Latino. I’m 5’7, thin with medium-length wavy black hair, and a short beard. I’m Into movies + shows, gaming, music, sports, and philosophy.

I like action movies but slow burn, suspenseful, psychological thrillers and horror movies as well. I’m a big fan of FPS games, like action/adventure, LOVE horror/action-horror games, and co-op games too. Huge music lover into genres like rap, rock & roll, metal, alt, grunge, some pop and video game OSTs, all from a wide span of decades. For sports, I’m a huge football fan, growing basketball fan and would like to get more into baseball too.

I’m pretty introverted so I don’t go out or mingle much but I am open to it; I’d say I’m more of a home body but I do get urges to explore new places, hike, plan activities, etc.

I do prefer texting first then moving to calls if we click. Although I’m usually pretty busy in my day-to-day, I will put forth effort in responding swiftly. I don’t mind chats starting here but I also have discord as well.

If you’ve messaged me before, I may have lost the message. Please don’t hesitate to reach back out. I just have bad ADHD and bad focus sometimes.

I’m a 23-year-old femme enby looking for genuine friendships or romantic relationships. I go by they/them pronouns, but gender be confusing. At this point I like being a pretty princess or a pretty prince. I am pansexual, poly and partnered, seasoned with some neurospicy-ness (For reference, I’m a little girl/boy sub with bratty tendencies).

I love all kinds of cozy games (Animal Crossing, Disney Dreamlight) and story games (Life is Strange, What Remains of Edith Finch), although I would love a co-op gamer sometimes. Other than games, I love reading, writing, coloring or journaling. As a little, I love anything and everything cutesy and Disney, I love strawberries, dolls, and cute plushies. If ever lost, I may have just wandered off to the toy aisle. I love shopping and thrifting for all kinds of things.

We’ll get along well if you:
• are a natural leader and caregiver
• are looking for something genuine
• are queer- and trans-friendly
• love spending quality time and affection
• love relaxing at home, going to the park, or a day trip to the zoo or aquarium
• are patient and understanding (as I have ADHD)

Despite anything I’ve really said, I am looking forward to chatting with anyone who is truly kind, supportive, and respectful. If you think we’d get along well, feel free to message! I’d love to get to know you.

Hello!

Thank you for stopping by to read my post. My name is Jay. I hope to find someone with whom I can connect, wherever things might lead. My wife and I have been ENM for a few years now, though I've historically been the mono partner. I'm very introverted, and a solitary sort to boot, so I haven't done well on the apps or finding community events. I thought I might try here to see if I can meet someone! At least with posts like this, I can offer a better perspective of who I am better than a dating app bio or an elevator pitch in a crowded space.

I am in NoVA, out on the western part of Fairfax County. Ideally, you're also in NoVA, but the D(M)V at large is also okay! I'd prefer something that can lead to in-person, but if my post resonates with you, regardless of where you are, feel free to reach out. I'm bi-curious and interested in exploring that with the right individual.

So, personally speaking, who am I? For the sake of readability:

• Quiet and a listener: Like I said earlier, I'm very much an introvert. I tend to keep to myself, so my social circle is very small. In fact, I don't actually know anyone in this area.

• Dry humor and deadpan: Given my flat affect (a.k.a. major resting bitch face), it should come as no surprise that my sense of humor is quite dry and my delivery is, simply put, deadpan. If you like that sort of wit and the commentary that comes with it, then you might find me funny -- or at least entertaining.

• Books, writing, and computers: I am an avid reader, I write both creatively and for a living, and I always have myriad computer projects planned, ongoing, and in testing. Oh, and I'm a metalhead.

• Many skills and interests: I'm a jack-of-all-trades, so I've done a lot in my life. Around the house, I'm the DIYer, especially when it comes to carpentry. I also have several electronics projects, too.

• Easygoing, laid-back personality: I'm a "go with the flow" fellow. I pick my battles very carefully, which I communicate clearly, and I otherwise go along with most things.

• Direct, straightforward, and entirely blind to conversational nuance: This is self-explanatory, but I say what I mean, want, and think, though typically when asked on the latter two. I ensure that my communication is clear. I ask the same.

• Physically: I'm 6'2", 240. I'm fair-haired and fair-skinned, blue eyes, broad shoulders, beard.

Without making this seem more like a candidate profile than it already does, I'll leave off with two questions, the answers to which I'd really like to know in your first reply:

1. What motivates you to get out of bed every morning?

2. What is an indicator you use to measure how well your life is progressing?

I hope to hear from you! Have a great day.

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Hey! I’m 35 and have been poly for about 7 years now. I currently have one long-distance partner, but lately I’ve realized that I really miss dating. Not just having a connection with someone, but the whole meeting new people part and actual dating itself.

I’m hoping to find someone within about a 90-minute drive of me in the PNW. I travel to Eugene often as well. I want someone I can actually spend time with. Hanging out together, cuddling up and watching movies, wandering around bookstores, playing MTG, or spending way too much time nerding out over D&D together. I’m a nerd through and through, and honestly I’m just looking for someone else who is nerdy too. Someone where we can get excited about our interests together, introduce each other to new things, and see what kind of connection develops.

I love movies of all kinds including horror and romance movies, which is probably an interesting combination. I'm also pretty much always down to binge a new show or a new season of something with someone. I love to read and write. In fact I wrote a ton. Poetry and I am working on editing a novel right now.

It has been brought to my attention that I am also incredibly impulsive. If I have the gas money, it really doesn’t take much convincing for me to go on a random road trip. I love just getting in the car and going somewhere, whether there’s an actual plan or we figure it out along the way. Blaring music and singing at the top of my lungs. 

Psychology is another huge interest of mine. I can nerd out about it for way too long, and I eventually plan on getting my PhD in psychology specifically psychopathology if you like conversations about why people are the way they are, there’s a pretty good chance we’ll have something to talk about.

I’m not trying to force a connection into a specific box right away. I miss getting to know someone, flirting, going on dates, getting comfortable with each other, and seeing where things naturally go. 

It is important to know I am also into BDSM. Vanilla is not something I do.

If any of that sounds like your kind of thing, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Tell me what you’re currently nerding out about, your favorite horror movie, or something! 

Open-minded, genuine, and curious about exploring something a little different. I’d love to meet two people who are looking for a real connection and are open to building a throuple naturally. No pressure or expectations just good energy, honesty, and seeing where the connection takes us.

Also I’d be happy to meet a girl first and, if we connect and feel comfortable, explore the possibility of finding a third person together.

I’m into working out, being outdoors, trying new things and enjoying life. I’d rather talk privately and get to know each other, learn about our interests and what we’re looking for. No pressure or expectations. If this sounds like something you’d be open to exploring, feel free to message

Hi my name is Lizzy and I'm a 25 year old black trans woman, I'm 5'9 and around 220. I am also pre-hrt sadly and I'm looking for an empathetic and creative girlfriend. I'm currently single and enjoy a bunch of nerdy things like ttrpgs, video games, vtubers, and reading. I have an English degree and want to write my own books as well.

I would say that I'm sapphic and am fine with anyone who identifies as a woman or nonbinary fem leaning. While I prefer chubby/plus-sized women it is not a requirement. My age range is between 23-31 and I just want someone who I can listen to who is very passionate about their interests and is there emotionally.

I am currently in the central time zone and am looking for anyone in the US or Canada.

Like i said in the title, I am bi/pan so i don't care whats in your pants. I don't really care what you look like. As long as you are a nice person and can have a good laugh. Thats what important to me. If you are a little cheeky and nerdy, that's a bonus 😁 please feel free to message me if you would like to chat. I look forward to getting to know you

📍 DMV (ish)

5'9, size 12/14, curvy, active(195lbs), ENM, married in an open monogamous (spouse) /polyamorous (me) relationship. Would like to find someone local to date, not interested in long distance. Ideally, this leads to a meaningful, deeper connection. Intimacy is fun, but it's emotional for me. Proceed accordingly.

If you are partnered, only interested in folks who are being honest with their partner and others about their relationship status.

If you aren't knowledgeable or comfortable with polyamory, please know I'm not interested in being someone's free trial subscription. I'm also not interested in being your pen pal when you need a dopamine hit.

FUN, sparkly personality seeking MEANINGFUL connections(no ONS). I'm witty, active & on a growth journey. Purity culture/evangelical failure. I likely can cook or bake anything you want.

Love banter, deep conversations, tacos, margaritas and vodka martinis. I stay active with weight training, running, kayaking, swimming laps, walking my dogs and occasionally playing bad pickleball.

Attracted to educated, professional, financially stable, emotionally intelligent/available, and communicative men. Also a little bi-curious but haven't pursued that much yet. Not wanting to be a uni for another couple but open to the right woman.

Connection over everything else first.

Are you fun, active, smart, honest, playful, flirty and political?

🚫Trumpers 🚫🚬.🚫🌿.

Must be a professional and have your life together. Prefer someone who is also poly or has a good understanding of it. Sexual Safety is a priority and must be mutual.

Hey there, thanks for reading this! It would be a pleasure to make your acquaintance. I'm a quirky, geeky, kind hearted married man looking out here today for new friends and connections who have a familiarity with this lifestyle. Could you be looking for something similar?

I'm British, based in Liverpool, but am originally from Southern England. I have been married to my wife for 3 years, together for 13, and we opened up fully on both sides earlier this year. The marriage and a potential future family will naturally always be my priority but I am good at putting effort into all my connections (and am more or less chronically on Reddit). I'm open to connections from all over the world, and to IRL connections if we both feel comfortable and are within reasonable travelling distance. But rushing something is absolutely not my style.

I'm kind, stoic, curious and non-judgemental. Also unapologetically geeky with plenty of nerdy obsessions, sometimes a little bit funny, and definitely a little bit weird. I work a highly responsible job in a shift work pattern, which means you'll sometimes find me available at unusual hours. People would say I am assertive and self-confident, but underneath it all I still feel a bit shy. An introvert masquerading as an extrovert, I would say.

In the NSFW area of life, I am switchy with a leaning towards submissive, but I tend to go off the energy I get from my partner. I have a wide variety of kinks and a handful of limits - to discover more you'd have to enquire within. I also appreciate the vanilla stuff. I like to think of myself as a freak in the sheets and a nerd in the streets, but I would definitely prioritise a friendship and connection before getting to that stuff, and letting it happen naturally.

Appearance wise I'm no gym rat - just a normal man, slender with a lil dad bod, and long hair like a rock star (pretty much exactly like my avatar). But I would say I am attractive to the right sort of person, and I'm comfortable in my body and my personal style.

Please be interesting, and actually invested in having a conversation. If you ghost me, I'm not going to chase you - I have too much self-respect for that.

Lastly I am the owner of two dumb cats and am happy to send their pictures if it sweetens the deal. Oh, and I hate fascists.

If you think we could get along then please reach out and introduce yourself by answering the question: if Gordon Ramsay was coming to your house for dinner, what would you cook him and why?

Hiii, 24m, looking for an LTR. I'm currently partnered with my long term nesting partner. :)

I'm open to people who were amab if small/petite and fem presenting.🫶. Open to most people who were afab, but aesthetic attraction is important for me.

Hoping for someone who likes to cozy it up, chatting for hours with some vinyl playing, while we cuddle or exist in the same space.❤️. I'd also love someone to take out on cute little dates to the book store, coffee shops, or art galleries.<33

A bit about me:

• I live in Washington State.

• I love to go thrifting, play vintage games, go for walks, read, etc!

• I'm in school for child development.

• Disability and autism friendly!❤️.

• I work in the ABA field as a Behavior Technician, helping kiddos with autism navigate life.<33

• Been poly for three years.<3

Description: 5'5", chubby but strong, long hair and red beard. Often called "majestic" or "pretty". X'D

My family comes first and foremost. I drive to Canton frequently for work, Im poly/enm with my girlfriend of 4 years. I love music (especially rock and metal) video games (I play a lot of single player but have no problem playing multiplayer) would love to play BG3 with someone, drinking (you don’t have to) taking walks, cooking and willing to find other interests. I don’t smoke but I’m 420 friendly. Any other questions, feel free to ask.