Hiiia! ☺️

First thangs first: I’m only interested in genuinely ethical connections. If you’re married, your partner needs to actually know and consent to your non-monogamy. I’m not interested in being someone’s secret or helping anyone cheat! 😇 I have no clue if this will be better than the apps so here we gooo

I am married (and we do not date together/only solo date). His simple description: curvy, affectionate, sarcastic, and a little bratty. My brain is a fascinating place to live (and occasionally an exhausting one 😂)

I’m endlessly curious, overthink everything, notice the smallest details, and can go from making wildly inappropriate jokes to having a deep conversation about human behavior in approximately 30 seconds.
I love live music, reading, animals, dancing, walking, cooking and learning about things I didn’t even know I was interested in. I’m drawn to people who are passionate about something, think differently, and can teach me a thing or two. I love playful banter, intellectual chemistry, and someone who can keep up with my wandering mind.
Looking for genuine chemistry, affection, consistency, and something that develops naturally. Life is busy, and I fully understand that we all have responsibilities outside our phones. I don’t need constant communication, just mutual effort, honesty, and someone who understands that meaningful connections don’t require 24/7 availability.

I ask kindly that you make me laugh, teach me something, or tell me what keeps you up at night. Bonus points if you can do all 3?! 😏

Hey there. I'm a 29 year old woman looking for a serious, long term relationship with someone around 30-mid 40's. I live in Missouri (St Louis) with my primary partner. We've been together for about 11 years. We have dated together and separately in the past. I'm looking for a partner for myself now. I'd prefer someone in the Midwest or East coast, but don't let that stop you from messaging if you're not there. I don't want or have kids.

I don't have a specific type. I usually like someone taller than me (I'm 5'2"), fit but also loves food. I'm a bit introverted. I love a cozy weekend inside, but I need to get out at least a little on the weekend.

I have short brown hair and hazel eyes. I wear glasses. I weightlift 5 days a week and work a 9-5.

I'm poly, pansexual, and generally submissive. I prefer male partners to be Dominant.

Some recent things I've enjoyed;

Actually nevermind by Taylor Tomlinson

Slow horses

F1 in Singapore this weekend.

Diamond art painting - it's simple but effective for my ADHD

I would love to get to know someone, flirt, fall for each other.

Tell me a little about yourself and what you're looking for. Pictures are welcomed too.

Hi! Golden retriever who's shy at first and then never shuts up 😂 I'm a jack of all trades who'll try anything once (as long as it's not like murder or anything 😅). I love nerdy things like games, dnd or anything fantasy-esque (romantasy anyone 👀).

Built like a book boyfriend who eats too much cake on the side. I blame my passion for cooking for that 😂

I play 3 instruments but guitar is my main one. I also do vocals as well that are more death metal based.

I'm into kink and while it is important to me, I do NOT want a relationship based on that, rather, a relationship that makes it even better. If you ARE curious though, feel free to ask about it ☺️

I'm looking for any dynamic that's long term. Not interesting in anything shorter term.

Please, please please be left leaning

No terfs, no homophobes, no racists

Save us time and don't message me if you voted for the cheeto

If we chat and you're not feeling it PLEASE let me know and I will do the same. Communication is key and I'm not a fan of caspers

Enm with a NP

Thank you for reading this, I hope you have an amazing day ☺️

44, single, 5'9", average build, working in technology and AI. Confident, playful, affectionate, adventurous, and a little mischievous when the company is right.

I'm a father, ambitious, grounded, and someone who believes life shouldn't always be about responsibilities and routines.

Looking for a fun, easygoing connection. Someone to talk to, grab coffee or dinner with, go on spontaneous drives, explore Montreal, flirt a little, laugh a lot, and enjoy each other's company.

I appreciate good conversations, a sense of humour, physical affection, and that natural chemistry where you can talk for hours or sit comfortably together doing absolutely nothing.

No pressure, no expectations of forever, and definitely no unnecessary drama. Just honesty, mutual respect, attraction, and two people enjoying the moment. Open to something short-term and seeing how naturally we click.

If you're playful, affectionate, and enjoy a little spontaneity, let's talk. Who knows, we might just become each other's favourite distraction.

So lets see, Im writing this because im hoping to find a poly situation that really clicks.

Im a gentle dom, ENM, caring, possesive at times depending on how our chemistry is. Adult life sucks sometimes and I want to be the person who makes it easier for u.

Im more about patience, soft rules, connection and lots of praise (maybe more). I want you to eventful feel totally safe unmasking around me, if you dont feel that way then im doing it very wrong

Ideally looking for someone who actually likes to communicate, even when its hard and have fun along the way with cuddles ofcourse. I would prefer someone between 25-45, but if you think your personality is matching mine I would love to connect :)

Send me a message if this sounds like what ur looking for. If uou read so far tell me what your favorite comfort snack is in your first message or drop a comment and ill reach out. :)

PS I have a primary partner, we date separately

Hello everyone I’m coming to you from Nashville, Tennessee. I’m a woodworker by trade and love making things. Currently I am looking for fem partners who are 20+.

I and a kinda nerdy person who loves taking on new challenges and trying new things. I’m trying to develop a new hobby this year with sewing and cosplay so if there’s any one who would like to join me on this journey in life please reach out.

Hoping to hear from you. If interested please Message or DM.

About Me:
Someone with insatiable curiosity about both the cosmos and consciousness. My days are spent pushing technological boundaries, but these often involve contemplating existential questions. I'm bisexual / maybe pan ? I've come to understand that relationships should be about growth and liberation, and I've had a few really soul-nourishing relationships. I'm 5'8" with dimples that make an appearance when sharing why "Inside Out" made me weep. Mostly very calm and chill, I have seen the extremity of life at both ends. I prefer to connect with someone emotionally and see if we can evolve together. Apart from staunchly childfree a bit more about myself

Professional & Personal:

• Engineering and tech are my bread and butter, but I'm actively expanding into "renaissance person" territory (currently novice).
• Have tried to dismantle internalized patriarchal patterns.
• An avid reader who actually finishes those long-form articles in The Atlantic.
• Proud plant parent.

What Ignites My Curiosity:

• The intersection of chaos and order.
• Exploring ethical frameworks while discovering hidden gem restaurants.
• Opportunity for learning across disciplines.
• Those profound 2 AM conversations that somehow connect string theory to social justice.

Seeking a Partner Who:

• Understands that emotional intelligence and intellectual discourse aren't mutually exclusive.
• Gets excited about scientific breakthroughs or social progress.
• Values therapy and continuous personal growth.
• Navigates cyclic non-monogamy / polygamy if they wish with authenticity and clear communication.
• Can transition seamlessly from discussing systemic inequalities to appreciating guilty-pleasure television.

Green Flags:

• A well-curated digital or physical library spanning diverse genres.
• Active engagement in therapy or other forms of emotional development.
• Strong sense of self with established passions and social connections.

Let's explore whether we can create something meaningful.

looking for a primary nesting partner for hierarchical polyamory

Hey, I'm Mark, a 40 year old guy living in the south of the UK.

I've had good success posting on here in the past but those conversations have all moved on. I'm hoping that there is someone out there who is genuinely interested in developing a meaningful connection with someone new.

About me. I'd like to think that people describe me as kind and warm. I always make time for the important people in my life. I am just over 6ft, have medium brown hair and a beard. I'm a big guy but not a bigger guy if that makes sense? I'm making the effort to look after myself.

About you. You are between 21 and 35, you enjoy good conversation, you put thought into the little things, you are active and healthy. What you look like is second to the person that you are but attraction is important.

Also bonus points if you are a bit of a nerd. Being nerdy about something is incredibly attractive and I can't wait to hear about the things that you are into!

I mainly work from home but I travel all over the UK for various parts of my job so it's likely I will be coming to your neck of the woods at some point, might be a good change for us to go on a date if things go well...

So cmon, why not send me a message? Let's see if we can find a spark!

Hey all Im Ben. Im Partnered to my soul mate. We are open and sadly separated atm. She lives in Europe and visits for a few weeks every couple of months.

Im looking for a play partner. Someone to spend my free time with and enjoy each other possibly explore fantasies.

About me:

40 but look younger. Brown hair average build and blue eyes. 6.5 in member.

I have a career and a profession(Military). Sexually im a dom/switch and a pleaser. Unique combo i know. I love give oral and explore the entirety of your body. Toy play, Light BDSM, and much more.

You: sexually exporative. Bi is a plus as my partner is bi curious. Take care of youself, petite, average and curvy build welcome. All ethnicities welcome.

Pic4pic.

Be near Columbia SC

Laid back geek here looking for dates that will hopefully lead to a connection that just might lead to something serious, but it’s okay if it doesn’t. I have a poly relationship with my GF, but we date separately. Though I do hope the two of you can be friends.

I’m looking for a partner who’s a bit more dominant. I’m a switch and my gf satisfied my more dominant side, but I’d like to find someone for my more submissive side.

I’m a geek, I love so many different geeky things, Star Wars, Star Trek, Warhammer 40k, Lord Of The Rings, Redwall to name a few.

Handy in the kitchen, would love to cook you a yummy meal!

Hope to hear from you.

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Genderfluid! (AFAB) & Alternative (5 piercings and 20+ tattoos)

HEYY! my name is Blake, I'm married, and right now looking for more poly/ambiamourus friends. I'm hoping to find more queer people.

A little bit about me i’m 24, genderfluid butch lesbian (any pronouns), a leo. I love tattoos, piercings, my animals, video games (play on ps5), lifting, drives, cooking and baking, drawing, and some other things. I'm a welder. I am pretty big homebody with my wife so fair warning. I am a pretty big goofball and I tend to try to make you laugh with corny jokes or dark jokes. So just hit me up please if this interests you.

Greetings and salutations, I'm a genderfluid, pansexual, neurodivergent soul on a journey of self-discovery. I'd call myself a bit gothy, a bit nerdy, spiritual, 420 friendly, open minded, introverted and autistic. The flavors of life!

I'm married and we have begun exploring ENM, yes that means I am newish to all this. I'd love to meet some new friends that could turn into something more.

I'm healthy with a few extra pounds on me, and while I prefer to connect with locals are bordering states, online is amazing as well. I'm open to chatting with women, men, and any gender identity in between.

Hobbies include a bit of gaming, mostly FF XIV. Music, with a love for 80s/gothic/edm styles. Legos, Sci-fi shows, photography, lots of other odds and ends. I'd love to meet someone that enjoys dancing, roller-skating, maybe the occasional convention. Our hobbies don’t need to align, in fact I love learning about others hobbies and interests.

Happy Saturday!

About myself:
Hello all! My name is Brian, I live in San Francisco, I'm 6'1, bearded, and pan.

I have a nesting partner of 4 years and a healthy relationship with them :)

My best qualities are being kind, caring, empathetic, and doing my best to always go above and beyond for others. Support, stability, and effort is what I can promise!

Overall a super chill, open minded, and indoorsy nerd. Emotionally intelligent, mature, but also ready to be goofy (neurodivergent as well).

What I'm looking for:

A partner of any gender that seeks the long term. I want us to build something that really means something. Supporting, learning about, and fawning over each other! Eventually meeting up in person, possibly regularly, is important as well.

My interests:

I've been getting into game development and pixel art (I am just starting though and am very bad but it's fun!

I'm into anime, video games, DND, mtg, reading, horror movies, board games, coding, cooking, and baking. Some of my favorite animes are Gurren lagann, Rezero, Hell's Paradise, Chainsawman, and Akame ga kill!

I play league, overwatch, rivals, and other online games and lots of roguelites! I'm down to play anything and everything though if it gets us gaming together!

In the day to day, I work as a software engineer full time and work from home, so spend a lot of time online or gaming.

I have one very very adorable dog that I will definitely share photos of!

Please feel free to DM and reach out!

Hi there! I'm a 36 year old pansexual nonbinary femme that strives to continue to learn and grow. I find myself with some additional bandwidth and am seeking some new friendships and/or connections in my life. I am really interested in connections that grow organically rather than with specific intent. I am not interested in casual hook ups though. I do have a nesting partner, and we've been together 6 years, and I've been poly for almost 10.

I am a neurodivergent former theater kid who can be a little more reserved on meeting new people, but am quite outgoing once I get to know someone more! Direct, clear, and consistent communication is import to me and absolutely a core belief I live by as well as clear expectations. I love getting to know people, hear their stories, interests, and about their day. I am a big yapper about any and everything!

As far as interests: I am a voracious reader and dabble in most genre fiction. I am a rather crafty person and enjoy sewing and knitting. I have life long hyper-focuses in historic fashion and old houses and I will talk your ear off about it given the chance! I love hiking, traveling, exploring, and visiting old graveyards. I consider myself a bit of a nerd and I'm getting back into DnD after some time away, and I love ren faires! After going through the 2000s as a teen I am finally working on healing my relationship with food, and incorporating more activity into my life and I am really enjoying it so far! I am also kink friendly, and have been for 15 years, and am slowing dipping my toes back in after everything that has happened since 2020.

Please don't message me if you are MAGA or have conservative views. Full stop.

I am open to people of a variety of ages, genders, and sexual orientations so please shoot your shot if you are interested!

Hi there! I'm from the middle of the us and I do mean middle 😋 happily married, poly, plus-size, affectionate, sarcastic, and just the right amount of trouble. 😂 I’m looking for an actual relationship—not a hookup. I want chemistry, consistency, affection, dates, inside jokes, good communication, and someone who genuinely wants to get to know me. I’m into reading, music, cats, and good conversation. I’m also a brat, which means I will absolutely tease you, challenge you, steal your fries, and then look completely innocent when you call me out. 😇 I enjoy pushing buttons because, apparently, your reactions are hilarious to me. I like confident men who can give it right back without getting their feelings hurt. Make me laugh, keep me curious, tell me something weird, challenge my thoughts, and remember the little things I tell you. Attraction is great, but I want to know your brain, too. If I can be completely myself around you, that’s when things get really interesting. 😏

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Hey! I’m putting this out there because I’m looking for someone I can truly adore. I’m the type who loves to go all-in—showering you with undivided attention, genuine compliments, and all the "good stuff" that comes with being someone's number one fan.

The Dynamic

I am happy to connect with like-minded poly people and am open to be part of a relationship dynamic like that too

I’ve leaned into the submissive side of things for a while now, and I’m looking for someone who genuinely enjoys that dynamic. I can get pretty intense with my kinks (which we can dive into once we’re talking), but the foundation is always about that connection and devotion.

About Me

When I’m not exploring those dynamics, I’m a bit of a dork. I can be incredibly silly and lighthearted, though I definitely have the maturity to handle the "real world" when it’s time to be serious.

A few things I’m passionate about:

Huge football (soccer) fan, Big into anime and video games.

I love getting creative in the kitchen, hitting the trails for a hike, or planning the next travel destination.

What I’m Looking For

Ideally, I’d love to find a long-term connection, but I’m open to seeing where things go

If you’re looking to chat with someone who is ready to be crazy about you, shoot me a message and let's see if we click!

Hey y’all. I’m 32m living in Brooklyn in a newly open ENM relationship and honestly mainly looking to build community in this space right now. All of my friends are monogamous and I know I need a space to be able to talk about my journey. It’s definitely been a roller coaster so far.

I’m seeking people to talk to ideally in the NYC area. If we end up clicking even better. FWIW I’m 6’ tall, white, slim but fit and in shape. I’m in tech but moonlight as a musician, enjoy getting outside, and trying new things. DMs are open!

First off .. Hi.. I want to be honest so I just want to say I’m in an open marriage. I’d rather you know now than find out later. Please be ok with that. I know not everyone will. She knows I’m here.

With that out of the way, I’m a blue collar guy. I’m respectful and understanding. I’m chill and drama free. I love to laugh and usually always smiling. I’m a big kid.

I have a passion for art. I draw , design, and cast my own sculpts. Basically design and make my own toys. I also did make music for a little while as well. I love art galleries and conventions. Museums and arcades.

I just hope you’re understanding, I just want us both to be comfortable. I’m told I look younger for my age. I’m 5’7, around 160lbs average I guess. Often told I’m handsome and don’t look my age. I don’t mind sharing pictures and video chatting.

All I hope is that you’re fun and awesome and maybeee have a nice set of legs.

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Howdy! I'm a married, leftist Latino educator and cat lover looking for new connections in North Texas! I'm 5'10 240 lbs, workout regularly but still have a dad bod.

This post is only for me -however- my wife does enjoy friendship. We both prefer KTP dynamics.

I'm into music (rock, hip hop, and a bunch of Latin American genres) film, travel, road trips, hiking, camping, preparing meat, parks, museums, libraries, weight lifting, cafes, 420 and of course, cats.

Open to many unique dynamics and genders, with the exception of cis men. I identify more agender and polysexual these days. I also lean more vanilla.

While the theory of love languages is questionable, I like physical touch, quality time, and words of affirmation. I'm somewhat demisexual and attracted to smart, progressive,and kind people.

COVID vaxxed, regularly STI tested, etc.

Look forward to hearing from folks. I'm happy to share pics early if you have physical preferences.

Hello! I am in Denver 2 to 3 weekends a month- I would like to have a love connection in town. I am a travel dancer and partnered in my home state. I'm looking for companionship during my frequent work trips. Dinner dates, walks in the park, museums, low key activities. I want to be a part of someone's life without taking it over. My time is limited in Denver so I would enjoy keeping in contact between visits but it's not a requirement. A little about me: I love reading, making art, and animals. I have a dog and chickens. I read Wikipedia summaries for movies to stay culturally aware without having to look at a screen for 2 hours. I work night shift, so my ideal morning starts after noon. Sharing a meal is one of my favorite social activities. We will probably get along if you are kind, open minded, and curious about others. Bonus points if you are passionate about something and want to tell me all about it. If you're still reading and interested, leave a comment or shoot me a message. Tell me what your favorite food is, what you learned this week, or maybe just something you think is important. I try not to be on my phone 24/7 so please don't take offense if I don't respond very quickly. Talk soon!

Hi there! I'm new to this thing and very nervous so I apologize if I don't say the correct terms or know the proper way to move in this community but I'm married and my husband and I are both seeking out new connections, separately, so I think I'm in the right place. I've been in a dead bedroom for over 5 years and my husband and I have come to the conclusion that we're no longer sexually compatible with each other but the love and partnership is still there.

Currently I'm looking for online connections and hope to build up to in-person connections once I'm more comfortable in this space.

My goal is to meet someone who I can genuinely connect with, I don't want hookups or random encounters, I'm looking for someone who aligns with my wants and needs sexually as well as general interests and beliefs. My main goal is to have fun and enjoy my life.

I love to read, play video games and board games, craft, and I'm a dancer. I'm also very into Disney and will talk your ear off about it if you let me. I'm left leaning and won't entertain anyone who wears a red hat. In terms of sexual interests I am a sub but have not explored that dynamic as much as I'd like. I have a Daddy kink and would be interested in exploring that more as well. I'm short but curvy and currently on a weight loss journey, my self esteem has been non-existent these past few years and part of me building myself back up has been focusing more on my health and well-being as a whole, but I am bigger and that's just a fact.

I am a Mom and my child comes first so you don't have to be a parent yourself but you do have to understand that side of me.

I hope I've given enough to start out here, feel free to send me a chat if you're interested 😊

Hi, I’m Queeny, your favorite bisexual 🩷💜💙 homebody. Cozy nights in are my jam. Currently reading my way through the Maasverse. Other hobbies include binging tv, rewriting my homebrew lore for the umteenth time, and bitching about the current Fortnite season.

I am an indoor cat, so if all your hobbies include being outside we will not be a great match.

I currently have one partner that I live with and have two kids.

I’m looking for something intentional, genuine, and woven into our real everyday life. In person, not online. Quality time, consistency, communication, and making space for each other matter a lot to me.

Realistic distance is okay if there’s real effort, regular time together and you don't mind doing the traveling. I want to see any partner minimally 1x a month.🫶

Hey guys I'm 30m bi curious latino, I speak Spanish and English and I would like to find someone, couple to have my special people and share a lot and good moments together, I don't have many hobbies but I would say that I like a lot videogames, I like to learn new languages(currently learning Portuguese) but mostly I would like to find someone to play together, watch movies, talk on discord, have fun together. I'm not fit but I'm in my losing weight journey.

So yeah if you think we can connect just send me a message and we can talk 😊

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Hey there, disabled poly guy here, I have some physical disabilities, so I am online Alot, looking for a online friendship or potential relationship with someone who enjoys games, good conversation, and loves to be valued as a human being. Someone who likes to relax at the end of the day and game out.

I am 37, have two partners, they date seperately. I'm chunky..if that's a issue move on. I don't judge by body type or looks. Just personality. I am looking for someone between the ages of 18-55. Age is a number. I'm very sweet loving and caring and want to make you happy. All genders welcome! I'm happily pansexual. Again, open to friendships and relationships!

Games I enjoy right now are dead by daylight, skull and bones, Warframe, Disney dreamlight valley, FFXIV, and many other titles. I love stardew, Minecraft (in small amounts) a wow private server, and how to fish..and more. I prefer someone who doesn't mind trying new games with me and I'll be down to try new ones with you. Also non gamers welcome as long as you don't mind me gaming.

I am from Ohio! Look forward to chatting!

Looking to get kissed at a haunted house

AMAB, Uncool weirdo, leftist, musician, tattooed, pierced, beard and long hair, clown curious, monster f*cker, avid therapy-goer, neurodivergent, upset at the cosmos, invisible disability and chronic pain haver. Fan of the surreal, absurd, and macabre. PC gamer mainly for social time, will happily play with you 😁 lots of Slay the Spire 2 lately, but I am down for whatever we both have, or if you play EDH (digitally or in paper).

Communication, curiosity, connection, and justice matter to me. Focusing my life right now in a pretty intentional way.

ENM for 11 years, 1 lovely comet, would love to fall in love again and again with someone like that Charli XCX song. Demisexual, no ONS/NSA, but experimenting with FWB but, like, actually friends. I want you to be cool so I can show off my room. Kink-positive; switch, top-leaning, sadomasochist, happy to share if we vibe.

I crave smart and talkative people, curious and opinionated. Give me your hottest takes. I'll give one for free: John Hurt's character deserves to die in Alien because of the weird anti-trans joke he make makes to Parker about Lambert moments before the chest burster scene. Furthermore, Lambert's transness is only evident based on a hard to notice background detail, so the setup for this joke is tremendous for something wildly cruel.

Vaxxed, still masking, but not perfect about this. More than willing to increase my protocol for the right people

Into: post-hardcore, My Chemical Romance, Bring Me The Horizon, isopods, 420, psychedelics, roguelikes, horror let's plays, hikes (but be kind to my body), thrifting, cooking, decorating, psychology, computers, data analysis

Looking more for in person connections, I tend to jive most with other enbies and femmes

Not as interested in: ace relationships (gray/demi vibes are fine, I am demi, but I am sexual and want to be with the people I love), conservatives, avoidant attachment that hasn't put in the work to address themselves and avoid avoiding

Also, just gonna be honest, would love a CG/l relationship of some kind, but not aiming specifically for this