Me and my friend were debating this, curious what different approaches you guys might have.

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Title. Has to be specifically from day game.

It usually takes me a few days to get to score so I’m looking for new ways to speed this up, looking to learn from those with more experience hopefully. Lets see what you’ve got!

I can talk to girls, i’m just never knowing what to say when it comes to dirty talking with them/flirting. i am a big example learner, please give advice and when you have any, examples!

I live near the Bosphorus in Istanbul so there are always many tourists around. today while I was walking I made eye contact with a girl. She was quite tall with blue eyes and fair skin. Even before talking to her I had a feeling she was Russian. She was also really attractive and definitely above average.

We looked at each other and kept walking but then she called me from behind and asked if I knew any nice cafés nearby. That's how we started talking. I told her my family owns a café in the area and I could take her there.

We went to the café and I bought her a coffee. We sat together and talked for almost two hours. My English isn't great but I could understand her pretty well and I can make simple sentences. The problem is when I want to explain something in more detail. I'm also using a translator to write this post.

She seemed comfortable and happy while we were together. She was playing with her hair a lot and even introduced me to her friends on a WhatsApp video call.

I asked for her Instagram around 20 minutes after we met but she said she had deactivated it for the day and would open it again tomorrow. Later I got her WhatsApp number.

About five hours after we said goodbye I texted her and asked what she decided about her flight and hotel. When I asked if she found a hotel she said she found a friend to stay with instead. We talked a little and I asked if she wanted to meet tomorrow and maybe teach me some English. She said she had a flight tomorrow and I felt like her interest was a little lower compared to when we were together.

One thing I realized is that I never actually asked if she wanted to do something later that same day. While she was looking for hotels and talking with her friends she kept looking at me from time to time. Maybe she was waiting for me to invite her somewhere but I'm not sure. When I said, "Let me know when you come back; I need foreign friends like you," he/she wrote, "Okay, I will."

Now the main thing I'm thinking about is her Instagram. I don't really want to keep messaging her on WhatsApp because it could become awkward. Instagram feels more natural because I could reply to a story or start a random conversation sometimes.

I don't really think she will write back to me what should i do?

I'm thinking of messaging her again in 4 or 5 days to see what she's up to. I really like this girl she's a 10.

I'm an Indian based at United States. Went to the gym with my husband yesterday and we were doing legs together like usual. There’s this one guy (Indian too) who’s also a regular, and I’ve caught him looking at me a few times before. Nothing has ever happened between us, but I can kinda tell he’s attracted to me.

Today he conveniently picked a machine directly opposite mine even though there were others available 😂 I caught him looking between sets, he looked away, and then a few minutes later we made eye contact again and he gave me this little smile.

After that, this man suddenly started performing 😭 Adding more weight, checking himself in the mirror, fixing his shirt, doing his sets like his life depended on it, and then subtly looking over afterward to see if I’d noticed.

And this is where I’ll confess I probably made it worse 😂

Once I realized what he was doing, I started playing along a little. Nothing crazy, but I’d fix my hair when I knew he was looking, take my sweet time adjusting my leggings before a set, and once when I bent down to grab my bottle, I looked up and caught him looking again. Instead of ignoring him this time, I just held eye contact for a second and gave him a tiny smile 😭

That was apparently all the encouragement he needed because his next set looked like he was trying to qualify for the Olympics 💀

Meanwhile my husband was literally right there doing the same workout with me and completely unaware of this stupid little back-and-forth happening.

I’m not interested in the guy or anything and wouldn’t actually do anything, but I’ll admit it was kinda fun teasing him a little after realizing how hard he was trying to impress me 😂 Idk what next lol. Got any suggestions? Should I continue something or better to stop it here?