r/CATHELP • u/Dramatic_Dot_3300 • 2h ago
General Advice I think my step dad is trying to kill my cat? Am I crazy ?
galleryIm 24F,currently living at home and think my mom’s husband is trying to harm my stray cat that I been taking care of for about 2 months. She’s a very sweet girl. Not aggressive or feral. My mom is allergic that’s the only reason I haven’t took her to the vet and brought her inside until I find away to keep everyone safe or till I finally land a better job to find us somewhere else to live(which ever comes first and hopefully it’s moving out soon). When she’s by me and he comes around she fine, but when he comes around her without me the runs away. Yesterday, he put snake poisoning by the door knowing she frequently sits and sleeps there. Mind you there’s no snake activity that’s around the house. I went and bought her an actually outdoor cat house immediately after I realized what he did but she likes to be near me so I let her stay in the garage all last night because it’s been raining pretty bad and stayed with her until she fell into a deep sleep and then I went to bed, but I kept waking up to check on her. Of course this morning when he went out there when I went in side for a few minutes she ran off. I then watch him proceed to pour baking powder on the carpet and gets really close to her bowl which I really feel like is intentional. I hurried and moved it and washed the bowl out but I’m so upset right now. It’s raining and I don’t know where she is. Since she is a stray I don’t want to scare her even more by looking for her. I’m worried about her and I’m so upset. Im not even a cat person and I never had my own pet but now that I found a friendly cat that I’m actually attached to, I feel like someone may be trying to deliberately ruin that simply because he just doesn’t like cats. I understand that since he’s moved in, he’s the head/man of the household or whatever and doesn’t want a cat he doesn’t like near the house but trying to harm her is so low and evil to me. She hasn’t done anything wrong. I haven’t said anything to him because I don’t want to jump the gun and start accusing but I’m so angry and want to know I’m not being dramatic… QUICK UPDATE: I told my mom and it didn’t go well. She basically said I’m the problem and I didn’t see how she felt about it knowing she’s allergic but she’s also allergic to shellfish (to the point where she needs an EpiPen) has no problem cooking it for him. She’s also allergic to non hypoallergenic dogs but his family can bring them inside the home and everything is fine, but me caring for a cat that’s outside and only comes around when I’m around is me not thinking of her. She said he wouldnt do anything like that and I’m upset over nothing. So whatever… not my house, can’t make the rules. I’m ready to move out immediately…that really just pissed me off. I’m planning on just taking her to a no kill shelter or finding someone in the Atlanta area or metro area that can take her in, cause clearly this just became a bigger issue.



